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He and I had a come to Jesus meeting the 2 days ago. He rode 19 hours and 1032 miles home yesterday. I basically told him no more her if he wants to stay married to me. This is not the first time he has done this. It did lead to an 8 month separation the first time. The first tho became much more involved and lead to us both making some really bad decisions. Anyway after our talk he cut his trip a week short and came home. This morning on his own he got up and decided to take DS for breakfast and a motorcycle ride. It seems like he is much like our kids, they want to do what they want and damn the responsibilities, but at the same time they want us to set the limits and hold them responsible. We now begin to take steps again to rebuild what has been lost and try to fix what is broken. I won't give up on him. I cant. I simply don't know how to give up.

[QUOTE="MommaK, post: 690014, member: 20354"] He and I had a come to Jesus meeting the 2 days ago. He rode 19 hours and 1032 miles home yesterday. I basically told him no more her if he wants to stay married to me. This is not the first time he has done this. It did lead to an 8 month separation the first time. The first tho became much more involved and lead to us both making some really bad decisions. Anyway after our talk he cut his trip a week short and came home. This morning on his own he got up and decided to take DS for breakfast and a motorcycle ride. It seems like he is much like our kids, they want to do what they want and damn the responsibilities, but at the same time they want us to set the limits and hold them responsible. We now begin to take steps again to rebuild what has been lost and try to fix what is broken. I won't give up on him. I cant. I simply don't know how to give up. [/QUOTE]

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