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I Cut Off Ties With My difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 153810" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I'm so sorry. How are your eyes? Are you recovering ok?</p><p></p><p>It does not surprise me that the judge didn't separate the children. I think his hands were tied as it is probably the directive he was given by the state.</p><p> </p><p>I'm glad that you stood your ground as far as not taking both children. You're not a young woman, and you have walked this path before. You know how hard it is. </p><p></p><p>You have to start taking care of yourself now. There may come a time that your grandson isn't being used like a political football in a family drama, and you will be ready to help him. But in my mind, what I see is you being set up for failure by your daughter. She's poisonous to you now just as she is poisonous to those children. </p><p></p><p>The way I see it, the only hope for that little boy is to get her out of the picture. You are right to step back from her. It sounds like the CPS woman thinking you wanted money rather than help is more like someone put a nasty bug in her ear. I hope that you will find a way to mend your fences with this agency.</p><p></p><p>I agree that if you want to keep you and your grandson safe it is time to walk away from your daughter. If you have the money and the opportunity, I hope that you will see an attorney as to how to keep contact with your grandson without becoming or being a victim to your daughter's manipulations of the courts and CPS.</p><p></p><p>Please take care of yourself and get better. You need to be strong and healthy in order to make the right decision for you and your family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 153810, member: 99"] I'm so sorry. How are your eyes? Are you recovering ok? It does not surprise me that the judge didn't separate the children. I think his hands were tied as it is probably the directive he was given by the state. I'm glad that you stood your ground as far as not taking both children. You're not a young woman, and you have walked this path before. You know how hard it is. You have to start taking care of yourself now. There may come a time that your grandson isn't being used like a political football in a family drama, and you will be ready to help him. But in my mind, what I see is you being set up for failure by your daughter. She's poisonous to you now just as she is poisonous to those children. The way I see it, the only hope for that little boy is to get her out of the picture. You are right to step back from her. It sounds like the CPS woman thinking you wanted money rather than help is more like someone put a nasty bug in her ear. I hope that you will find a way to mend your fences with this agency. I agree that if you want to keep you and your grandson safe it is time to walk away from your daughter. If you have the money and the opportunity, I hope that you will see an attorney as to how to keep contact with your grandson without becoming or being a victim to your daughter's manipulations of the courts and CPS. Please take care of yourself and get better. You need to be strong and healthy in order to make the right decision for you and your family. [/QUOTE]
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