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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 207726"><p>Oh so familiar. husband and I have gotten into it so many times. He thinks he works more because he works M - F. I work three or four days a week 12 hour shifts.</p><p> </p><p>He works 7 - 3:30....I work MIDNIGHT to NOON. Do you know how hard it is to work nights???? Especially when you are older. Do you know how hard it is to sleep during the day? But who sleeps. I go to school for all the meetings, I do the dr. appts., clean, wash, (painting rooms in the house), shop, take care of bills, car repairs, drop off, pick up...etc. Lucky to get a few hours sleep not to mention food. Then on my days off I work a second job 3 - 4 hours a day. Lunch hours at school. This prevents me from doing anything that may take a few hours.</p><p> </p><p>Many times I say things I shouldn't. Like..must be nice to get up go to work and come home.</p><p>Told him he was lazy. I feel bad for that one. He has a bulging disk and now he makes a point to fiddle around with silly things that really don't mean anything. Just so he looks busy.</p><p>I lay out difficult child's homework, tell him to check it. READ it. Give him what needs to be studied. If I didn't, that would not happen.</p><p> </p><p>Things are falling apart in the house, been 15 years and nothing has ever been done. So now I am doing this. some things I just am not capable of fixing.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe we should go on vacation and leave husband's home!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 207726"] Oh so familiar. husband and I have gotten into it so many times. He thinks he works more because he works M - F. I work three or four days a week 12 hour shifts. He works 7 - 3:30....I work MIDNIGHT to NOON. Do you know how hard it is to work nights???? Especially when you are older. Do you know how hard it is to sleep during the day? But who sleeps. I go to school for all the meetings, I do the dr. appts., clean, wash, (painting rooms in the house), shop, take care of bills, car repairs, drop off, pick up...etc. Lucky to get a few hours sleep not to mention food. Then on my days off I work a second job 3 - 4 hours a day. Lunch hours at school. This prevents me from doing anything that may take a few hours. Many times I say things I shouldn't. Like..must be nice to get up go to work and come home. Told him he was lazy. I feel bad for that one. He has a bulging disk and now he makes a point to fiddle around with silly things that really don't mean anything. Just so he looks busy. I lay out difficult child's homework, tell him to check it. READ it. Give him what needs to be studied. If I didn't, that would not happen. Things are falling apart in the house, been 15 years and nothing has ever been done. So now I am doing this. some things I just am not capable of fixing. Maybe we should go on vacation and leave husband's home! [/QUOTE]
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