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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 207744" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>Ok first of all you totally need to find some you time. Your day is so packed, by the time you got to cleaning up dishes I was tired. lol.</p><p></p><p>I totally agree with Trinity though he doesn't "see" what you do because to him it is invisible. He leaves mess you clean it up that sort of thing.</p><p></p><p>For me I don't have that issue right now yet I did. Now past 5 mos i'm not working so i just do everything because i feel i should its the least i can do. Yet he still manages to cook one of the nights he's off, he also does the dishes one night a week without my prompting. He is a rarity when it comes to that stuff though. Yet he will still proceed to sit on the computer at night while I get kids snacks, and pajamas on, and that kinda sets me off a bit especially since their his kids too and he only gets to see them two nights a week ..........ok sorry off topic. lol</p><p></p><p>anyway if i were you id stop cleaning up certain things of his, like the kitchen in the a.m. now for me it would drive me insane not to clean it and to truly leave it till night to prove a point yet maybe you can. Have you tried expressing to him how you feel the chores are not shared in the least?</p><p></p><p>You have got to find you time though it's imperative. Even if you leave dishes one night in kitchen walk away and run a warm bath with a book for yourself. See if he gets up loads washer, walks dog's, etc. I think you would be happy if he did it only two nights a week so you could catch a break, yes??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 207744, member: 4514"] Hi, Ok first of all you totally need to find some you time. Your day is so packed, by the time you got to cleaning up dishes I was tired. lol. I totally agree with Trinity though he doesn't "see" what you do because to him it is invisible. He leaves mess you clean it up that sort of thing. For me I don't have that issue right now yet I did. Now past 5 mos i'm not working so i just do everything because i feel i should its the least i can do. Yet he still manages to cook one of the nights he's off, he also does the dishes one night a week without my prompting. He is a rarity when it comes to that stuff though. Yet he will still proceed to sit on the computer at night while I get kids snacks, and pajamas on, and that kinda sets me off a bit especially since their his kids too and he only gets to see them two nights a week ..........ok sorry off topic. lol anyway if i were you id stop cleaning up certain things of his, like the kitchen in the a.m. now for me it would drive me insane not to clean it and to truly leave it till night to prove a point yet maybe you can. Have you tried expressing to him how you feel the chores are not shared in the least? You have got to find you time though it's imperative. Even if you leave dishes one night in kitchen walk away and run a warm bath with a book for yourself. See if he gets up loads washer, walks dog's, etc. I think you would be happy if he did it only two nights a week so you could catch a break, yes?? [/QUOTE]
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