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I dont know if I want to be around him anymore
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 445738" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>I feel you, very much... Very much. We're trying to get my stepdaughter <em>into</em> treatment. And my bio clock is ticking furiously - 2 failed rounds of IVF so far.</p><p></p><p>I understand your husband might not want more kids due to the problems with difficult child - but with a biomom that's not into drugs, etc., there will be less issues from the get-go. Maybe you and he could sit down and actually discuss, no judgements, no name calling, no arguments, just reasons you do/don't want to have (another) child. Because I've wanted my own for 20+ years, and still - there are reasons I actually don't. Mostly, though, they're workable. So you might be surprised that you have objections. But don't force the issue. Just discuss... Write stuff down, stop & come back to it later if it gets too emotional.</p><p></p><p>Is difficult child your husband's only child? (Try, try again is what I say...)</p><p></p><p>As for difficult child... Many of the things you post about him sound like my Onyxx... And I am really glad you all have got him help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 445738, member: 6705"] :hugs: I feel you, very much... Very much. We're trying to get my stepdaughter [I]into[/I] treatment. And my bio clock is ticking furiously - 2 failed rounds of IVF so far. I understand your husband might not want more kids due to the problems with difficult child - but with a biomom that's not into drugs, etc., there will be less issues from the get-go. Maybe you and he could sit down and actually discuss, no judgements, no name calling, no arguments, just reasons you do/don't want to have (another) child. Because I've wanted my own for 20+ years, and still - there are reasons I actually don't. Mostly, though, they're workable. So you might be surprised that you have objections. But don't force the issue. Just discuss... Write stuff down, stop & come back to it later if it gets too emotional. Is difficult child your husband's only child? (Try, try again is what I say...) As for difficult child... Many of the things you post about him sound like my Onyxx... And I am really glad you all have got him help. [/QUOTE]
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