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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 514267" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>Weary,</p><p></p><p>I am sorry that you are going thru this. I did go thru this also with my difficult child daughter. I took her to our local police station and did a lock-out. I had called 911 many times and the police had taken photographs of my bruises that difficult child had given me. I got to a point I could not take one more day of her mental or physical abuse. She had to leave. It was heartbreaking because she could be so sweet somedays. But I was afraid that I was going to lose control and hurt her. if not her than in time I would have certainly hurt myself. To have a life I had to do something. It turned out to be the best thing. She went into care 1 1/2 years ago and just returned home this February. During her stay in foster care, I was very fortunate that she was placed in a good home, right around the corner from me. She did a little maturing and realized i did not have to deal with her nastiness. We have had two bad mornings since she came home, before she left it was every morning that was bad. I do have child abandonement on my record. it is noted why I abandoned and I have been nothing but praised by the judge and DCFS, they know that it was what had to be done and they know that I did not take it lightly. Everyone involved in our case knows that I tried, and tried till the point of having a break down. I am so grateful to them for their help. You here CPS or DCFS and think bad things, not in my case. They do appreciate good parents and do want to help. It might be the wakeup call that your child needs. Sounds like you need it too. She gets up all on her own every morning. My child who used to scream and yell and throw things at me, woke up this morning came in and gave me a kiss and her dog a kiss and said have a good day mom. Love you. Many hugs to you and PM me if you need to talk some more. Everyone deserves to be free of mental and physical abuse. Sometimes we are so beat down that we just don't even have time to think about we deserve to be treated right, ecspecially by our family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 514267, member: 8787"] Weary, I am sorry that you are going thru this. I did go thru this also with my difficult child daughter. I took her to our local police station and did a lock-out. I had called 911 many times and the police had taken photographs of my bruises that difficult child had given me. I got to a point I could not take one more day of her mental or physical abuse. She had to leave. It was heartbreaking because she could be so sweet somedays. But I was afraid that I was going to lose control and hurt her. if not her than in time I would have certainly hurt myself. To have a life I had to do something. It turned out to be the best thing. She went into care 1 1/2 years ago and just returned home this February. During her stay in foster care, I was very fortunate that she was placed in a good home, right around the corner from me. She did a little maturing and realized i did not have to deal with her nastiness. We have had two bad mornings since she came home, before she left it was every morning that was bad. I do have child abandonement on my record. it is noted why I abandoned and I have been nothing but praised by the judge and DCFS, they know that it was what had to be done and they know that I did not take it lightly. Everyone involved in our case knows that I tried, and tried till the point of having a break down. I am so grateful to them for their help. You here CPS or DCFS and think bad things, not in my case. They do appreciate good parents and do want to help. It might be the wakeup call that your child needs. Sounds like you need it too. She gets up all on her own every morning. My child who used to scream and yell and throw things at me, woke up this morning came in and gave me a kiss and her dog a kiss and said have a good day mom. Love you. Many hugs to you and PM me if you need to talk some more. Everyone deserves to be free of mental and physical abuse. Sometimes we are so beat down that we just don't even have time to think about we deserve to be treated right, ecspecially by our family. [/QUOTE]
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