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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 370946" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Jal, please check in as soon as you look at this thread - we need to know that you're okay. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">We all understand the feeling of wanting to run away and there is no need to feel bad about that. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">If H is being abusive in any way (i.e., mentally, emotionally, sexually, or physically) it is NOT okay, no matter the circumstances that led to the abuse. No one has any right whatsoever to take away your personal power or invade your personal space or mistreat you. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">If you need to get away so you can gather your thoughts and speak with someone, I suggest going to a woman's shelter. If H is truly a hands on dad and loves his son, you can go without. Or, if you feel that difficult child won't be safe left at home, take him with you. I really think you need to get out of that house asap. One act of abuse can lead to further acts of abuse if nothing is done about it, it's an escalating epidemic and it sounds as though your H is suffering from depression and intense frustration. He's created outlets for himself (baseball, friends, going out) and perhaps there is a bit of midlife stuff going on there, you've been together for a long time beginning at a very young age. BUT, what about you? </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Please call a dr or helpline or seek out a women's shelter asap and remove yourself from the situation so you can speak with professionals and sort out your thoughts. Love has nothing to do with this - your safety and sanity have EVERYTHING to do with this. Many gentle hugs~ Please let us hear from you. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 370946, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Jal, please check in as soon as you look at this thread - we need to know that you're okay. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]We all understand the feeling of wanting to run away and there is no need to feel bad about that. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]If H is being abusive in any way (i.e., mentally, emotionally, sexually, or physically) it is NOT okay, no matter the circumstances that led to the abuse. No one has any right whatsoever to take away your personal power or invade your personal space or mistreat you. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]If you need to get away so you can gather your thoughts and speak with someone, I suggest going to a woman's shelter. If H is truly a hands on dad and loves his son, you can go without. Or, if you feel that difficult child won't be safe left at home, take him with you. I really think you need to get out of that house asap. One act of abuse can lead to further acts of abuse if nothing is done about it, it's an escalating epidemic and it sounds as though your H is suffering from depression and intense frustration. He's created outlets for himself (baseball, friends, going out) and perhaps there is a bit of midlife stuff going on there, you've been together for a long time beginning at a very young age. BUT, what about you? [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Please call a dr or helpline or seek out a women's shelter asap and remove yourself from the situation so you can speak with professionals and sort out your thoughts. Love has nothing to do with this - your safety and sanity have EVERYTHING to do with this. Many gentle hugs~ Please let us hear from you. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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