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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 78417" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I'm sorry but had to laugh at the comment that it was said to shut you up. My daughter is the same. Some of the things that have spewed out of her mouth to stop me from "nagging" were truly amazing. At least she only wanted you to be hit by the car. Mine wanted to shove me under a semi-truck but was afraid I might live and she'd have to take care of me forever. Like you apologies, notes, wild flowers were never forthcoming. To me, they were words, nothing more. </p><p></p><p>Does she love me? As much as she capable of love, yes. Right now, she needs me so the hate has stopped spewing. I'm sure that as soon as she gets a job and makes friends, the hate will be back. When it starts, I simply turn the words around in my mind to something positive and keep on doing what I'm doing. It is the best I can do.</p><p></p><p>I decided a long time ago that she could say what she wanted but I was going to say what was necessary. Of course, I was never sure she really heard what was said but at least I could say I tried to help her do what was necessary. If she chose to not hear, it was not my problem. It was hers.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry she's spiraling. Is it a new influence in school or one of those "I've been good too long and I can't hold it together anymore?" This happens with my daughter even today. I hope things get better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 78417, member: 3626"] I'm sorry but had to laugh at the comment that it was said to shut you up. My daughter is the same. Some of the things that have spewed out of her mouth to stop me from "nagging" were truly amazing. At least she only wanted you to be hit by the car. Mine wanted to shove me under a semi-truck but was afraid I might live and she'd have to take care of me forever. Like you apologies, notes, wild flowers were never forthcoming. To me, they were words, nothing more. Does she love me? As much as she capable of love, yes. Right now, she needs me so the hate has stopped spewing. I'm sure that as soon as she gets a job and makes friends, the hate will be back. When it starts, I simply turn the words around in my mind to something positive and keep on doing what I'm doing. It is the best I can do. I decided a long time ago that she could say what she wanted but I was going to say what was necessary. Of course, I was never sure she really heard what was said but at least I could say I tried to help her do what was necessary. If she chose to not hear, it was not my problem. It was hers. I'm sorry she's spiraling. Is it a new influence in school or one of those "I've been good too long and I can't hold it together anymore?" This happens with my daughter even today. I hope things get better. [/QUOTE]
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