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I don't want to be the sacrafice anymore...
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 586494" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Welcome. I am so very sorry you are having to go through this with your step son. All of your feelings are absolutely valid and understandable too. It is okay to want your life back, to want to enjoy your life and have some happiness. You deserve that. There are likely all kinds of choices you and your husband can make which will protect you, perhaps talking to a therapist so you can look at options which you may not be able to see while you are in the thick of it. You are in a tough spot, I can see why you wouldn't want to put your husband in a position of making a choice, but at the same time, your feelings are real and need to be addressed. </p><p></p><p>I think a starting place might be to tell your husband you love him and you don't want him to have to choose, but you need something to change now. Start a dialogue with the intention of finding options. I'm so sorry, I can hear how difficult it is and how sad you are. I hope you can find a solution which works for YOU. Many gentle hugs.............let us know how you're doing, keep posting............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 586494, member: 13542"] Welcome. I am so very sorry you are having to go through this with your step son. All of your feelings are absolutely valid and understandable too. It is okay to want your life back, to want to enjoy your life and have some happiness. You deserve that. There are likely all kinds of choices you and your husband can make which will protect you, perhaps talking to a therapist so you can look at options which you may not be able to see while you are in the thick of it. You are in a tough spot, I can see why you wouldn't want to put your husband in a position of making a choice, but at the same time, your feelings are real and need to be addressed. I think a starting place might be to tell your husband you love him and you don't want him to have to choose, but you need something to change now. Start a dialogue with the intention of finding options. I'm so sorry, I can hear how difficult it is and how sad you are. I hope you can find a solution which works for YOU. Many gentle hugs.............let us know how you're doing, keep posting............ [/QUOTE]
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