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I don't want to be the sacrafice anymore...
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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 599863" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>I do t think you are horrible you sound pretty exhausted. As the primary care giver for a boy who isn't yours who has problems and probably no one else gets it like you do because they don't see the things you see...</p><p></p><p>Honestly the video games may be part of it and having less stress being placed on him to conform to your very understandable expectations. But understand he may actually just want his mom. She might be a lousy parent but its likely he doesn't see it and won't and maybe shouldn't see that. Kids want their mom and I don't say that as a hurtful thing but just as a true one. It doesn't make less of your sacrifice or make the hardship you have been through less. I'm sure over the years you have had every right to come up with your opinion of her but it probably isn't his opinion. </p><p></p><p>If his dad wants him to say either a he needs to make an effort to take the stress off of you or b he needs to come</p><p>To the conclusion that she's his mom and maybe needs a turn to see how hard it really is.</p><p></p><p>You aren't a selfish person, you're just a person who has real feelings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 599863, member: 16184"] I do t think you are horrible you sound pretty exhausted. As the primary care giver for a boy who isn't yours who has problems and probably no one else gets it like you do because they don't see the things you see... Honestly the video games may be part of it and having less stress being placed on him to conform to your very understandable expectations. But understand he may actually just want his mom. She might be a lousy parent but its likely he doesn't see it and won't and maybe shouldn't see that. Kids want their mom and I don't say that as a hurtful thing but just as a true one. It doesn't make less of your sacrifice or make the hardship you have been through less. I'm sure over the years you have had every right to come up with your opinion of her but it probably isn't his opinion. If his dad wants him to say either a he needs to make an effort to take the stress off of you or b he needs to come To the conclusion that she's his mom and maybe needs a turn to see how hard it really is. You aren't a selfish person, you're just a person who has real feelings. [/QUOTE]
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