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I evicted her - what now?
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<blockquote data-quote="troubled" data-source="post: 407063"><p>Here is the latest news: difficult child and her boyfriend were told to leave the friend's house and ended up paying for a ratty motel room for a week with no other plans of where they were going after that. Then, difficult child and boyfriend get into a fight, boyfriend smashes both of their cell phones and then cuts himself with a razor and is taken by ambulance to hospital and admitted to psychiatric ward. His parents are called and difficult child spend the night sleeping on two chairs in the waiting room. She has had nothing to eat for 17 hours and they won't let her see or talk to her boyfriend. So she calls my sister and asks if sis can give her a ride back to motel? Sis says no, so difficult child calls my brother and he goes and gets her, feeds her breakfast at a restaurant, tells her she looks smelly and dirty and then drops her off at her motel. She is told by motel manager that she has 30 minutes to leave and take all her stuff and that the payment for the room for a week was cancelled by her boyfriend's parents. (Don't know how they managed it, but anyway..) difficult child calls my sister again, asking if she can come get her, put her things in the storage unit and can she stay with her? My sister says no.. can't stay but she goes and gets her and ends up taking her back to the same friend's apt that she was put out of first of all. difficult child calls my mom now, using her laptop since the phone is smashed and tells my mom that she has family but no one will help her.. has no place to go.. crying and upsets my mom. My sister told difficult child that she is going to have to find a shelter to stay at but difficult child says no way is she going to a shelter. difficult child thinks she can stay at the friends for a couple days but after that...??? She keeps trying to get in touch with her boyfriend via email and he is not responding and we think the parents are going to convince him to go back home with them and leave difficult child behind. He has no phone now and all they have to do is cut off his internet, too. They are NOT GOOD for each other, obviously, but difficult child is obsessed with him now and said that she will scrape money together and find a way to catch a bus back to Minn if she has to. It sounds like a very bad idea. She knows no one in Minn other than boyfriend and his parents. She still has a lot of clothes and all her important papers at their house, too.</p><p></p><p>I've advised my family members to resist letting her stay with them or they will be enabling her poor behavior and so far, they've minimally been involved giving her a ride or food. My brother said she ate like she had not eaten in days. She said she had not eaten for over 17 hours. She didn't seem to care that she had to wear dirty clothes and that she smelled. Sounds like she's a few steps away from skid row. My sister told her that a shelter would help her get ID, signed up for services, food, etc but difficult child still refuses. I wonder what she's got planned next? Homeless and broke in Minn? She better stay here where at least she has a few friends but I don't think she will listen to reason. It's going to be a hard and painful fall once she hits bottom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="troubled, post: 407063"] Here is the latest news: difficult child and her boyfriend were told to leave the friend's house and ended up paying for a ratty motel room for a week with no other plans of where they were going after that. Then, difficult child and boyfriend get into a fight, boyfriend smashes both of their cell phones and then cuts himself with a razor and is taken by ambulance to hospital and admitted to psychiatric ward. His parents are called and difficult child spend the night sleeping on two chairs in the waiting room. She has had nothing to eat for 17 hours and they won't let her see or talk to her boyfriend. So she calls my sister and asks if sis can give her a ride back to motel? Sis says no, so difficult child calls my brother and he goes and gets her, feeds her breakfast at a restaurant, tells her she looks smelly and dirty and then drops her off at her motel. She is told by motel manager that she has 30 minutes to leave and take all her stuff and that the payment for the room for a week was cancelled by her boyfriend's parents. (Don't know how they managed it, but anyway..) difficult child calls my sister again, asking if she can come get her, put her things in the storage unit and can she stay with her? My sister says no.. can't stay but she goes and gets her and ends up taking her back to the same friend's apt that she was put out of first of all. difficult child calls my mom now, using her laptop since the phone is smashed and tells my mom that she has family but no one will help her.. has no place to go.. crying and upsets my mom. My sister told difficult child that she is going to have to find a shelter to stay at but difficult child says no way is she going to a shelter. difficult child thinks she can stay at the friends for a couple days but after that...??? She keeps trying to get in touch with her boyfriend via email and he is not responding and we think the parents are going to convince him to go back home with them and leave difficult child behind. He has no phone now and all they have to do is cut off his internet, too. They are NOT GOOD for each other, obviously, but difficult child is obsessed with him now and said that she will scrape money together and find a way to catch a bus back to Minn if she has to. It sounds like a very bad idea. She knows no one in Minn other than boyfriend and his parents. She still has a lot of clothes and all her important papers at their house, too. I've advised my family members to resist letting her stay with them or they will be enabling her poor behavior and so far, they've minimally been involved giving her a ride or food. My brother said she ate like she had not eaten in days. She said she had not eaten for over 17 hours. She didn't seem to care that she had to wear dirty clothes and that she smelled. Sounds like she's a few steps away from skid row. My sister told her that a shelter would help her get ID, signed up for services, food, etc but difficult child still refuses. I wonder what she's got planned next? Homeless and broke in Minn? She better stay here where at least she has a few friends but I don't think she will listen to reason. It's going to be a hard and painful fall once she hits bottom. [/QUOTE]
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