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I evicted her - what now?
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 407067" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Wow. This scenario is playing out fast.</p><p></p><p>I certainly hope difficult child is not obsessed with this boy. Autistic obsession is not a good thing in this sense. Trust me, been there done that and it was nerve wracking enough without any drama involved.</p><p></p><p>A hunch tells me that difficult child's plans of happily ever after are falling apart and she is desperately attempting to put them back together again. You have to remember, you're dealing with a child's mind in an adult's body. </p><p></p><p>I'd written you a fabulous response while I was sick.........and evidently didn't hit the send button. lol sigh But now you're in a crisis........</p><p></p><p>If somehow you can get her past this point......... There is help out there if you can find it. There are halfway houses ect out there for people such as our kids who can't quite live independently. You just need to know they're there in order to search for them. We have one across the alley from us but they deal with adults who's functioning is even lower than our difficult children. I know because back when Travis was 18 I asked about him living there. We have an apartment complex too and staff check on the residents each day to make sure they're meeting basic daily needs ect. But that one I won't use because once I checked it out and saw it was run poorly.....nope. Until I knew to look for them though, I had no clue they even were out there.</p><p></p><p>Hmm. I wonder if there is someone you can call to ask if the Danger to self and others doesn't apply in this situation. Because someone with the mind set of a child in an adult female body roaming the streets is putting herself in unlimited danger. Never hurts to ask.</p><p></p><p>I will be praying for both you and difficult child. ((((hugs)))) I know you must be worried to death even though she has you frustrated beyond reason.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 407067, member: 84"] Wow. This scenario is playing out fast. I certainly hope difficult child is not obsessed with this boy. Autistic obsession is not a good thing in this sense. Trust me, been there done that and it was nerve wracking enough without any drama involved. A hunch tells me that difficult child's plans of happily ever after are falling apart and she is desperately attempting to put them back together again. You have to remember, you're dealing with a child's mind in an adult's body. I'd written you a fabulous response while I was sick.........and evidently didn't hit the send button. lol sigh But now you're in a crisis........ If somehow you can get her past this point......... There is help out there if you can find it. There are halfway houses ect out there for people such as our kids who can't quite live independently. You just need to know they're there in order to search for them. We have one across the alley from us but they deal with adults who's functioning is even lower than our difficult children. I know because back when Travis was 18 I asked about him living there. We have an apartment complex too and staff check on the residents each day to make sure they're meeting basic daily needs ect. But that one I won't use because once I checked it out and saw it was run poorly.....nope. Until I knew to look for them though, I had no clue they even were out there. Hmm. I wonder if there is someone you can call to ask if the Danger to self and others doesn't apply in this situation. Because someone with the mind set of a child in an adult female body roaming the streets is putting herself in unlimited danger. Never hurts to ask. I will be praying for both you and difficult child. ((((hugs)))) I know you must be worried to death even though she has you frustrated beyond reason. [/QUOTE]
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