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<blockquote data-quote="troubled" data-source="post: 407951"><p>Obsessed with an autistic boy - yes, that is exactly what it is. I don't know exactly what his diagnosis is but I know she says he's Aspie and is a suicidal cutter. He seems to be devoid of feelings and merely mimics her when it comes to expressing love, joy, happiness.. even anger. He gets violent. He's always asking her, "How does that feel?" She feels like she can easily manipulate him, even physically. He is vulnerable and dangerous. He's never had a girlfriend before and I think he's as obsessed with her as she is with him. They say they will net nothing get between them. Right now, however, there is a long road between them or an 18 hour bus ride. </p><p></p><p>The plot thickened. The parents of the boyfriend came to the hospital, collected their own difficult child son and flew him home on a plane, leaving my difficult child at the hospital. My difficult child talked her boyfriend the next day, into using his parent's credit card, and arranging for a bus ticket for her to come back to minn where he is. Also, he planned on having to meet her at the bus stop with his parents car and taking her to a motel. He would have to do this at 11 PM at night and lie and say he was going out to see a late movie. So, difficult child boarded the bus, got there and instead of him coming to get her, his parents took her to a hotel for the night and bought her a bus ticket home the very next morning, Her boyfriend got angry because they wouldn't let him go get her so he cut himself and was back in the hospital again, but this time, in his own state. There was talk of putting him in a group home and/or getting a restraining order against difficult child. They are serious. And at the same time, difficult child is trying to trump them. She talked to someone online who knew a little about group homes and he told difficult child that if the 21 year old did not live with parents then they could not force him into a group home as far as he knew. He said she definitely would not have any contact with him if he was in a group home. She was then sending email to the boyfriend, telling him that if he didn't want to be forced into a group home he would have to not live with parents. She's trying to manipulate him into moving out! </p><p></p><p>This isn't the first autistic spectrum disorder boy she's been obsessed with. She averages a different one each year. The last one was too young by 4 years and his parents told her they were going to get a restraining order against her if she didn't stop encouraging him to run away and meet up with her. He was defiantly silent when it came to telling on her and never would say if they had any sexual contact. She finally gave up on him only after seeing he had a new girlfriend on facebook. </p><p></p><p>I know nothing about halfway houses or group homes but I've given difficult child every phone number and address of where to go for help and so far she won't call or go to them. She has her mind set on being with her boyfriend, come hell or high water! She currently hiding out in some friend's house that she knew from Special Education school. He is supposed to be being homeschooled but is still getting in all sorts of trouble with the police outsied of school, like getting caught smoking on school property when he doesn't even attend school there. I know that if she gets some money, she will be on another bus to Minn once again to hook up with this boyfriend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="troubled, post: 407951"] Obsessed with an autistic boy - yes, that is exactly what it is. I don't know exactly what his diagnosis is but I know she says he's Aspie and is a suicidal cutter. He seems to be devoid of feelings and merely mimics her when it comes to expressing love, joy, happiness.. even anger. He gets violent. He's always asking her, "How does that feel?" She feels like she can easily manipulate him, even physically. He is vulnerable and dangerous. He's never had a girlfriend before and I think he's as obsessed with her as she is with him. They say they will net nothing get between them. Right now, however, there is a long road between them or an 18 hour bus ride. The plot thickened. The parents of the boyfriend came to the hospital, collected their own difficult child son and flew him home on a plane, leaving my difficult child at the hospital. My difficult child talked her boyfriend the next day, into using his parent's credit card, and arranging for a bus ticket for her to come back to minn where he is. Also, he planned on having to meet her at the bus stop with his parents car and taking her to a motel. He would have to do this at 11 PM at night and lie and say he was going out to see a late movie. So, difficult child boarded the bus, got there and instead of him coming to get her, his parents took her to a hotel for the night and bought her a bus ticket home the very next morning, Her boyfriend got angry because they wouldn't let him go get her so he cut himself and was back in the hospital again, but this time, in his own state. There was talk of putting him in a group home and/or getting a restraining order against difficult child. They are serious. And at the same time, difficult child is trying to trump them. She talked to someone online who knew a little about group homes and he told difficult child that if the 21 year old did not live with parents then they could not force him into a group home as far as he knew. He said she definitely would not have any contact with him if he was in a group home. She was then sending email to the boyfriend, telling him that if he didn't want to be forced into a group home he would have to not live with parents. She's trying to manipulate him into moving out! This isn't the first autistic spectrum disorder boy she's been obsessed with. She averages a different one each year. The last one was too young by 4 years and his parents told her they were going to get a restraining order against her if she didn't stop encouraging him to run away and meet up with her. He was defiantly silent when it came to telling on her and never would say if they had any sexual contact. She finally gave up on him only after seeing he had a new girlfriend on facebook. I know nothing about halfway houses or group homes but I've given difficult child every phone number and address of where to go for help and so far she won't call or go to them. She has her mind set on being with her boyfriend, come hell or high water! She currently hiding out in some friend's house that she knew from Special Education school. He is supposed to be being homeschooled but is still getting in all sorts of trouble with the police outsied of school, like getting caught smoking on school property when he doesn't even attend school there. I know that if she gets some money, she will be on another bus to Minn once again to hook up with this boyfriend. [/QUOTE]
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