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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 391501" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>been too busy all day long to come online and read all of these. lol.</p><p> </p><p>went to doctor this morning because I HAd a bad bad night with-legs, ice cold feet, shotting pains etc. long story short went there and well he said make neuro appointment earlier please! he said there are no other blood tests i can run. it's either ms, or a bone or joint disease. he said also you gotta head to rheumatologist. he gave me medication for the swelling though so im more functional.</p><p> </p><p>as far as what star wrote STAR I READ IT AT 1 A.M. AS I SAT IN THE BATHROOM IN PAIN LOL. I know what your saying yet here's the deal, called a therapist already 2x waiting on a cb for both husband and i to go together, also waiting on a referral for me to go alone. just need to vent somewhere, anywhere. so that's been in the works and trust me i HAVE ALOT TO SAY!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> you know me.</p><p> </p><p>i'm awesome at boundaries always have been. i'm not one of those poor me moms. screw them is my attitude. yet at end of day let's be logical. I CAN'T NOT FOOD SHOP BECAUSE easy child IS AN ****. I just took your advice wrote up a chore sheet that will be hitting fridge tonight. it's hard to give difficult child chores in state she is in yet i think i'm going to give a small one.</p><p> </p><p>easy child is a witch when she wants to be and trust me when that child would not get up to help me. oh no you little brat. so this a.m. she woke me up for lunch money i usually put it on her dresser at night for her. she buys it in cateria. i said to her this morning oh you want money from me and laughed. GO PACK YOUR LUNCH. she was like are you kidding i'm a senior etc. i said maybe you'll remember that the next time you want to sit on your lazy butt when i'm needing help.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child well yea it's hard wtih her. yet last night i went into rm and said listen i get you can't sleep and i am sorry yet i need my sleep so i can function tmrw. so here's the deal draw, write, clean your room there's an idea yet don't wake me at all. I WENT TO BED.</p><p> </p><p>husband is husband. he was mad at me for yelling at him yesterday he said i was rough on him always am, etc. he's tired of it. he does his best. so i made peace yet told him i get your schedule is hard he works everyday from 9 till 12 5 days a week. only day we see him is monday and wednesday than we have his kid here too. he spends most of his night monday carting his 3 kids to diff activities they have and isn't even here for dinner, coooks it yet than has to leave. </p><p> </p><p>I told him we have zero time so we are falling apart now. so monday and wednesday kids in bed by 9 than we have 3 hours till midnight to hang out. i said the other nights i'll make a schedule yet i am not sitting up till 3 anymore to make you happy and being swollen and in pain the next day. sorry you chose what you do as a profession yet i need my sleep and that's that. so i don't want to her anymore complaining about your lack of you know what etc. </p><p> </p><p>so, that's as most damage control i can do for today. dryer broke again. so husband is headed to laundromat. again. as far as me time goes. aint' happening anytime soon.</p><p> </p><p>STAR i laughed when i read what you wrote. i calmly pulled your PINK boot out of my ass, got a grip and moved forward THANKS!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 391501, member: 4514"] hi been too busy all day long to come online and read all of these. lol. went to doctor this morning because I HAd a bad bad night with-legs, ice cold feet, shotting pains etc. long story short went there and well he said make neuro appointment earlier please! he said there are no other blood tests i can run. it's either ms, or a bone or joint disease. he said also you gotta head to rheumatologist. he gave me medication for the swelling though so im more functional. as far as what star wrote STAR I READ IT AT 1 A.M. AS I SAT IN THE BATHROOM IN PAIN LOL. I know what your saying yet here's the deal, called a therapist already 2x waiting on a cb for both husband and i to go together, also waiting on a referral for me to go alone. just need to vent somewhere, anywhere. so that's been in the works and trust me i HAVE ALOT TO SAY!! :) you know me. i'm awesome at boundaries always have been. i'm not one of those poor me moms. screw them is my attitude. yet at end of day let's be logical. I CAN'T NOT FOOD SHOP BECAUSE easy child IS AN ****. I just took your advice wrote up a chore sheet that will be hitting fridge tonight. it's hard to give difficult child chores in state she is in yet i think i'm going to give a small one. easy child is a witch when she wants to be and trust me when that child would not get up to help me. oh no you little brat. so this a.m. she woke me up for lunch money i usually put it on her dresser at night for her. she buys it in cateria. i said to her this morning oh you want money from me and laughed. GO PACK YOUR LUNCH. she was like are you kidding i'm a senior etc. i said maybe you'll remember that the next time you want to sit on your lazy butt when i'm needing help. difficult child well yea it's hard wtih her. yet last night i went into rm and said listen i get you can't sleep and i am sorry yet i need my sleep so i can function tmrw. so here's the deal draw, write, clean your room there's an idea yet don't wake me at all. I WENT TO BED. husband is husband. he was mad at me for yelling at him yesterday he said i was rough on him always am, etc. he's tired of it. he does his best. so i made peace yet told him i get your schedule is hard he works everyday from 9 till 12 5 days a week. only day we see him is monday and wednesday than we have his kid here too. he spends most of his night monday carting his 3 kids to diff activities they have and isn't even here for dinner, coooks it yet than has to leave. I told him we have zero time so we are falling apart now. so monday and wednesday kids in bed by 9 than we have 3 hours till midnight to hang out. i said the other nights i'll make a schedule yet i am not sitting up till 3 anymore to make you happy and being swollen and in pain the next day. sorry you chose what you do as a profession yet i need my sleep and that's that. so i don't want to her anymore complaining about your lack of you know what etc. so, that's as most damage control i can do for today. dryer broke again. so husband is headed to laundromat. again. as far as me time goes. aint' happening anytime soon. STAR i laughed when i read what you wrote. i calmly pulled your PINK boot out of my ass, got a grip and moved forward THANKS!!! :) [/QUOTE]
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