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I finally threw her out
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 744657" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi RPMom. Welcome.</p><p></p><p>I felt very sad reading your story. Until I caught myself and realized your daughter had the love and devotion and care of three parents.</p><p></p><p>Her story is not over! She can very likely awaken and begin to live in another way. In what you describe I read nothing at all that she cannot change.</p><p></p><p>I see real growth on your part.</p><p></p><p>You know now that her changing has not one thing to do with you, with what you do.</p><p></p><p>You know that changing for you is to put yourself, your well being, your health and serenity at the center of your life.</p><p></p><p>You know that there is not one perfect parent nor has there ever been, nor will there ever be.</p><p></p><p>Nor has there been a perfect life. Life is for learning. All of us, each of us, looks in the mirror and sees a failure. We take measure and do better. Or not. In this sense, nobody has a different life. Not you. Me. Our kids. Obama or Trump.</p><p></p><p>This is very exciting, this moment in your lives. Your daughter has a real chance to take responsibility for her situation. Little by little. As you turn towards your own story.</p><p></p><p>Right now the impetus is for you to center in your own needs.</p><p></p><p>I push and push with my son, and I wear myself out. It does nothing to change or move him. I know this. I can't help myself, sadly. They will or will not change themselves. But we can change us.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 744657, member: 18958"] Hi RPMom. Welcome. I felt very sad reading your story. Until I caught myself and realized your daughter had the love and devotion and care of three parents. Her story is not over! She can very likely awaken and begin to live in another way. In what you describe I read nothing at all that she cannot change. I see real growth on your part. You know now that her changing has not one thing to do with you, with what you do. You know that changing for you is to put yourself, your well being, your health and serenity at the center of your life. You know that there is not one perfect parent nor has there ever been, nor will there ever be. Nor has there been a perfect life. Life is for learning. All of us, each of us, looks in the mirror and sees a failure. We take measure and do better. Or not. In this sense, nobody has a different life. Not you. Me. Our kids. Obama or Trump. This is very exciting, this moment in your lives. Your daughter has a real chance to take responsibility for her situation. Little by little. As you turn towards your own story. Right now the impetus is for you to center in your own needs. I push and push with my son, and I wear myself out. It does nothing to change or move him. I know this. I can't help myself, sadly. They will or will not change themselves. But we can change us. I am glad you are here. [/QUOTE]
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