Hi. I am so sorry that you are all going through this. I cannot believe that the therapy program for sexually deviant behavior that your son graduated from is not helping you! Do they not have resources to help families? Surely others who have participated in their program have struggles after "graduating." No matter how great their program is I am sure that they don't "cure" anyone. I mean this has got to be a lifelong concern once the behavior is identified.
Have you gotten any help since your post?
Dealing with my young difficult child's hypersexuality is troubling enough. I can only imagine how hard this is for you! Please don't be concerned about not being here more to help others. I have had similar thoughts. I seem to only show up when I am am having a problem. But we are not all in a place where we can give back to others at the current place in our lives. Do not beat yourself up over that and do not feel guilty about it. You have enough on your plate.
hugs
