I totally agree with Sara. You did a wonderful job!!!
You were direct and honest without accusing her of doing anything. Simply stating how you felt in relation to what had taken place in the past. Way To Go!!
I'm hoping those pauses were Mom thinking about how much she hurt you before, and not that she's up to something.
I am so glad my family is several states away from me. A nice safe distance.
(((hugs)))
