Thanks, everyone! I didn't think I did so well- I have a feeling I'm either going to be hit with a guilt trip or a "fine, then just don't come at all" or "well, I feel like you bring me trouble" attitude real soon. Oh, well. Really, it just doesn't sound normal to me to plan a dinner to discuss things about what to do if something happens to someone the same day you introduce these people to each other. GEEZ!!
I think she's given them my phone number and told them to call me in the event that they can't reach her for a while or she had a bad car wreck or was hospitalized or something. I have no problem with that, and I don't mind meeting them.