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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 227028"><p>Thanks everyone.</p><p></p><p>As far as history goes, this is how I wind up in my current reality. Ex husband was a nice guy who just couldn't fulfill his responsibilities as a dad. He was very sweet and kind but working full time consistently for him was too much. He made a series of bad choices that hurt our family and after 16 years of marriage I made the painful decision to leave.</p><p></p><p>I met husband right after my divorce. I thought he was the love of my life. In hindsight, I went into marriage too quickly but at the time I was so happy and grateful for a second chance at love. husband went back to drinking about 2 years into our marriage after having been sober for 8. He has put me and manster through some difficult years. Many of my friends and family have about disowned me for not having dumped him but I am determined to create a semblance of family for manster. Also, the financial devastation would be huge. I don't want to put manster through a second divorce. Sometimes I think I should have stayed in the frying pan instead of hopping into the fire. </p><p></p><p>I didn't know manster was a difficult child when we met, he was just 3 and very active. If I knew then what I know now _____________________ fill in the blank.</p><p></p><p>So here I sit determined to make it work. husband is going to AA meetings and I am going to alanon. I give the future to God and just try to keep my side of the street clean and do the best I can.</p><p> </p><p>I have made so many mistakes but to have husband go on and on about how I am a horrible mom is too much. Especially when he has done nothing but let me down and I keep looking for ways to accept and forgive. </p><p></p><p>I'm really glad you guys are here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 227028"] Thanks everyone. As far as history goes, this is how I wind up in my current reality. Ex husband was a nice guy who just couldn't fulfill his responsibilities as a dad. He was very sweet and kind but working full time consistently for him was too much. He made a series of bad choices that hurt our family and after 16 years of marriage I made the painful decision to leave. I met husband right after my divorce. I thought he was the love of my life. In hindsight, I went into marriage too quickly but at the time I was so happy and grateful for a second chance at love. husband went back to drinking about 2 years into our marriage after having been sober for 8. He has put me and manster through some difficult years. Many of my friends and family have about disowned me for not having dumped him but I am determined to create a semblance of family for manster. Also, the financial devastation would be huge. I don't want to put manster through a second divorce. Sometimes I think I should have stayed in the frying pan instead of hopping into the fire. I didn't know manster was a difficult child when we met, he was just 3 and very active. If I knew then what I know now _____________________ fill in the blank. So here I sit determined to make it work. husband is going to AA meetings and I am going to alanon. I give the future to God and just try to keep my side of the street clean and do the best I can. I have made so many mistakes but to have husband go on and on about how I am a horrible mom is too much. Especially when he has done nothing but let me down and I keep looking for ways to accept and forgive. I'm really glad you guys are here. [/QUOTE]
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