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I hate to whine and vent but I dont have anyone else
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 476666" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Janet,</p><p></p><p>Tony is probably going through as much as you are. Its just that guys don't show it the same way. </p><p>I'm guessing that he's always believed that you were going to "get over this"... that it wasn't going to become "permanent". And he's now having a panic attack... because he wants you WELL (at least, on some "reasonable" definition...). He wants a wife and a housekeeper and a buddy... he didn't plan on "disabled". Its a major mental shift for him, and he <strong><u>doesn't want to go there.</u></strong> So he's trying to force you to become well. If he were really stopping to think this through, he would realize that 3 + 2 doesn't = 10. But... he is NOT thinking rationally.</p><p></p><p>Which is part of what is driving YOU crazy.</p><p></p><p>{{hugs}}</p><p></p><p>If it wasn't so far, I'd ship husband down there, and he'd have your place cleaned out in less than 2 days. I'm serious... But I can't do without him (need help with difficult child and other stuff) so... its just a nice thought.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 476666, member: 11791"] Janet, Tony is probably going through as much as you are. Its just that guys don't show it the same way. I'm guessing that he's always believed that you were going to "get over this"... that it wasn't going to become "permanent". And he's now having a panic attack... because he wants you WELL (at least, on some "reasonable" definition...). He wants a wife and a housekeeper and a buddy... he didn't plan on "disabled". Its a major mental shift for him, and he [B][U]doesn't want to go there.[/U][/B] So he's trying to force you to become well. If he were really stopping to think this through, he would realize that 3 + 2 doesn't = 10. But... he is NOT thinking rationally. Which is part of what is driving YOU crazy. {{hugs}} If it wasn't so far, I'd ship husband down there, and he'd have your place cleaned out in less than 2 days. I'm serious... But I can't do without him (need help with difficult child and other stuff) so... its just a nice thought. [/QUOTE]
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