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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 193036" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>You know - I know you love him and enjoy him in your life - but the business of having someone in your life when you are a couple is a two way street. </p><p> </p><p>To reitterate; you have a child in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) - you had to visit, gosh no stress there. You are taking new medications that make you foggy, so you won't be so stressed. You are stressing out over trying to better your life with a college test to earn a college degree and lost track of time. Then you have to continually "make it up" to a man who plays games? </p><p> </p><p>In your own words you said you called him/he was distant/and then he asked you if you KNEW he was being distant? WHAT A HEAD GAME. DO you really need this or just want it? I think his behavior was childish. I would see a red flag here if it weren't for all the addoration, love and appreciation overload you give this man. </p><p> </p><p>If he appreciated you as much? I think the call would have been </p><p> </p><p>You know you hurt me when you didn't call....what's up? </p><p>I lost track of time studying for this test.</p><p>OH....wow, is there anything I can do to help you? </p><p>No, I just had to see difficult child, study and this new medication is making me foggy.</p><p>Well - let me know when you can spend some time with me. </p><p> </p><p>Not - </p><p>You hurt me...</p><p>(I won't take her call, I will take her call....I'll be short) and ground her nose into it like a puppy who piddled on the carpet. By being distant, moody and obtuse. </p><p> </p><p>Eesh- I think your therapist needs to read this. A simple I'm sorry should have sufficed....but the game playing would have done me in for good. You made a simple, forgivable mistake and lost track of time. GOOD GOD what ever will happen if you're out shopping for groceries, run into an old girlfriend from school, sit and have coffee and forget to call him at home? A divorce? </p><p> </p><p>Sorry - I'm probably odd man out in this - but I treat DF with the same respect he treats me. If that respect ever stops - I won't disrespect him - I just won't respect him at all. And I sure wouldn't apologize 100 times for some honest loss of time. Urging you to keep an eye on this. You don't need to be raising 3 kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 193036, member: 4964"] You know - I know you love him and enjoy him in your life - but the business of having someone in your life when you are a couple is a two way street. To reitterate; you have a child in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) - you had to visit, gosh no stress there. You are taking new medications that make you foggy, so you won't be so stressed. You are stressing out over trying to better your life with a college test to earn a college degree and lost track of time. Then you have to continually "make it up" to a man who plays games? In your own words you said you called him/he was distant/and then he asked you if you KNEW he was being distant? WHAT A HEAD GAME. DO you really need this or just want it? I think his behavior was childish. I would see a red flag here if it weren't for all the addoration, love and appreciation overload you give this man. If he appreciated you as much? I think the call would have been You know you hurt me when you didn't call....what's up? I lost track of time studying for this test. OH....wow, is there anything I can do to help you? No, I just had to see difficult child, study and this new medication is making me foggy. Well - let me know when you can spend some time with me. Not - You hurt me... (I won't take her call, I will take her call....I'll be short) and ground her nose into it like a puppy who piddled on the carpet. By being distant, moody and obtuse. Eesh- I think your therapist needs to read this. A simple I'm sorry should have sufficed....but the game playing would have done me in for good. You made a simple, forgivable mistake and lost track of time. GOOD GOD what ever will happen if you're out shopping for groceries, run into an old girlfriend from school, sit and have coffee and forget to call him at home? A divorce? Sorry - I'm probably odd man out in this - but I treat DF with the same respect he treats me. If that respect ever stops - I won't disrespect him - I just won't respect him at all. And I sure wouldn't apologize 100 times for some honest loss of time. Urging you to keep an eye on this. You don't need to be raising 3 kids. [/QUOTE]
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