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<blockquote data-quote="butterflydreams" data-source="post: 193271"><p>Thank you everyone for all the different points of view! That is why I like coming here, everyone has a different way of looking at things.</p><p></p><p>J called me last night after I got home from class. We talked. His big thing was that my behavior had reminded him of not only his ex-wife, but an ex-girlfriend, both of whom were really bad with that sort of thing. His ex was a person who never cared about what you wanted or what your plans were it was only what she wanted. (There is more to it - even their kids resent her.) The ex-girlfriend was there for awhile, he helped her out when she needed it and then she didn't have time for him anymore. </p><p></p><p>I had thought there was some connection there, with his ex's. Anyway, we also discussed how I have been feeling off with the Zoloft. I have a doctors appointment on Monday so I will discuss how I am feeling with him then. </p><p></p><p>J said he would never want to stand in my way of achieving my degree and knows I have a lot going on with my kids and working too. He gets that, and he appreciates how I do so much for the kids and go to bat for them - his ex would have NEVER done anything like that for her own kids. </p><p></p><p>We had a very nice conversation. He said he is worried about me, he knows I have been under a lot of stress with difficult child, going to school, and work. He asked about the kids and how they are doing. Then we said goodnight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="butterflydreams, post: 193271"] Thank you everyone for all the different points of view! That is why I like coming here, everyone has a different way of looking at things. J called me last night after I got home from class. We talked. His big thing was that my behavior had reminded him of not only his ex-wife, but an ex-girlfriend, both of whom were really bad with that sort of thing. His ex was a person who never cared about what you wanted or what your plans were it was only what she wanted. (There is more to it - even their kids resent her.) The ex-girlfriend was there for awhile, he helped her out when she needed it and then she didn't have time for him anymore. I had thought there was some connection there, with his ex's. Anyway, we also discussed how I have been feeling off with the Zoloft. I have a doctors appointment on Monday so I will discuss how I am feeling with him then. J said he would never want to stand in my way of achieving my degree and knows I have a lot going on with my kids and working too. He gets that, and he appreciates how I do so much for the kids and go to bat for them - his ex would have NEVER done anything like that for her own kids. We had a very nice conversation. He said he is worried about me, he knows I have been under a lot of stress with difficult child, going to school, and work. He asked about the kids and how they are doing. Then we said goodnight. [/QUOTE]
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