If I could make a suggestion, the period that you are in with your child currently is a really poor one to be discussing his issues with people out there in your general world. It's 100% guaranteed that people will not understand and will look at this as a mis-managed child by parents who are using faulty parenting techniques.
I'd be telling husband to feel free to share the cute and funny and intelligent things that Sammy does, just as any other parent does. But until you're through the diagnostic phase and have a diagnosis you agree with, to zip it shut beyond that unless he has an understanding ear. Even in a small workplace they don't need to know your business at this point--there will be time later for the education that people who surround us need.
