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I have my first counseling appointment tonight~
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 254302" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">The counselor said she is a goal oriented person and said she likes to create small goals one at a time and that I should look forward to being prepared to do that at our next session. That impressed me. I think I will still be able to vent, however, I like the idea of creating a goal - even if it's just a teeny tiny small goal for now.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">I didn't feel she was trying to sway me either way except maybe a little after I told her about my low point and feeling like I just wanted everything to end. She asked me to elaborate and I so I said that I wasn't thinking in terms of dying per se, just not having the pain and anxiety I had going on - ending it all at once, the kids, the dogs, the house, the H, everything....i.e., running away! She responded, "Why didn't divorce ever enter your mind?". Which it had entered my mind, but it wasn't just H overwhelming me. It was all my wild compulsive worrying and caregiving that was overwhelming. H and the kids and dogs and house and work were all just a small part of the equation. Anyway, I'm going to take it as it comes. I love being able to go to someone and vent and swear and let it all out - LOVE IT!</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 254302, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]The counselor said she is a goal oriented person and said she likes to create small goals one at a time and that I should look forward to being prepared to do that at our next session. That impressed me. I think I will still be able to vent, however, I like the idea of creating a goal - even if it's just a teeny tiny small goal for now.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]I didn't feel she was trying to sway me either way except maybe a little after I told her about my low point and feeling like I just wanted everything to end. She asked me to elaborate and I so I said that I wasn't thinking in terms of dying per se, just not having the pain and anxiety I had going on - ending it all at once, the kids, the dogs, the house, the H, everything....i.e., running away! She responded, "Why didn't divorce ever enter your mind?". Which it had entered my mind, but it wasn't just H overwhelming me. It was all my wild compulsive worrying and caregiving that was overwhelming. H and the kids and dogs and house and work were all just a small part of the equation. Anyway, I'm going to take it as it comes. I love being able to go to someone and vent and swear and let it all out - LOVE IT![/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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