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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 312847" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p><strong><span style="color: red"><u>Get out now,</u></span></strong> do not look back just leave as fast as your legs will take you. <span style="color: red"><u><strong>Go to the nearest women's shelter</strong></u></span> or ask a relative if you can crash. 3 hours away is not really that far. <strong><span style="color: red">Turn your fear into something constructive.</span></strong> The thing that is keeping you in the place you are in is fear. Fear of being alone. fear of the unknown, fear of failure etc.</p><p>This type of fear is the bad kind of fear because it keeps you stuck in bad situations. Fear can be a great motivator also try turning your fear around to help you exit.</p><p> </p><p><span style="color: red"><strong>As far as notifying DSS goes, get yourself out of the situation first. Dave is abusive already ( verbal to you and physical to his son) he could esculate and really hurt you if enraged.</strong></span> So leave first and then make an annomous complaint to the police, the school, and DSS. I suggest all three to insure that someone will follow up on it. Once you make the complaint let it go and get on with improving yourself and your life. This child does indeed need help and chances are that those that have contact with him already know this so your complaint is just one more motivation to insure he gets it. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 312847, member: 2315"] [B][COLOR=red][U]Get out now,[/U][/COLOR][/B] do not look back just leave as fast as your legs will take you. [COLOR=red][U][B]Go to the nearest women's shelter[/B][/U][/COLOR] or ask a relative if you can crash. 3 hours away is not really that far. [B][COLOR=red]Turn your fear into something constructive.[/COLOR][/B] The thing that is keeping you in the place you are in is fear. Fear of being alone. fear of the unknown, fear of failure etc. This type of fear is the bad kind of fear because it keeps you stuck in bad situations. Fear can be a great motivator also try turning your fear around to help you exit. [COLOR=red][B]As far as notifying DSS goes, get yourself out of the situation first. Dave is abusive already ( verbal to you and physical to his son) he could esculate and really hurt you if enraged.[/B][/COLOR] So leave first and then make an annomous complaint to the police, the school, and DSS. I suggest all three to insure that someone will follow up on it. Once you make the complaint let it go and get on with improving yourself and your life. This child does indeed need help and chances are that those that have contact with him already know this so your complaint is just one more motivation to insure he gets it. -RM [/QUOTE]
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