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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 312898" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Oh, LMD, I don't think any of us would blame you for doing what you had to do to survive after the suicide. I have experienced 2 of them, 1 as a young child and one at age 18. They are truly devastating. No words can describe the pain.</p><p></p><p>I do agree that the way the suicide happened was meant to hurt you. PLEASE find a grief group. Most know that it can take a week, a month, a minute, a year, a decade or a lifetime to get to the point you can handle a grief group. Many funeral homes have them or know of them. They will NOT be surprised that you waited a few years to come to the group. It will help more than you believe now that anything can help. </p><p></p><p>As for Dave not hurting you, don't be surprised to be wrong. It is often the "snappers" (people who snap and then are done, don't know why everyone is upset) who end up really hurting someone. I grew up with 2 of them. </p><p></p><p>It really sounds like you are ready to move on. Please be careful and be quick. I know you don't think you are abused, not a whole lot, but you truly are. You display many of the types of thinking that are hallmarks of battered women. </p><p></p><p>Know that we care, and keep posting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 312898, member: 1233"] Oh, LMD, I don't think any of us would blame you for doing what you had to do to survive after the suicide. I have experienced 2 of them, 1 as a young child and one at age 18. They are truly devastating. No words can describe the pain. I do agree that the way the suicide happened was meant to hurt you. PLEASE find a grief group. Most know that it can take a week, a month, a minute, a year, a decade or a lifetime to get to the point you can handle a grief group. Many funeral homes have them or know of them. They will NOT be surprised that you waited a few years to come to the group. It will help more than you believe now that anything can help. As for Dave not hurting you, don't be surprised to be wrong. It is often the "snappers" (people who snap and then are done, don't know why everyone is upset) who end up really hurting someone. I grew up with 2 of them. It really sounds like you are ready to move on. Please be careful and be quick. I know you don't think you are abused, not a whole lot, but you truly are. You display many of the types of thinking that are hallmarks of battered women. Know that we care, and keep posting. [/QUOTE]
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