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<blockquote data-quote="FlipFlops" data-source="post: 281485"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: darkorchid">HI TAMMY!!</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">You have no idea how many times I have wondered how things turned out with your boys. I knew about the surgery. I spent a little time yesterday going through some of the other posts you've made. I'm sorry to hear about the surgery. Had a little chuckle at the news of your easy child daughter. Only because I think about that sort of stuff with my PCs and think that would be nothing to deal with in the future after all that difficult child has pulled. Sorry husband had some trouble with it. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">GLad to hear things got better with difficult child 1. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">Congrats on Joey, and the one on the way. It would be special if the baby is born on your birthday. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">So what ever happened to Miss Snooty Booty?<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">I hope you got a laugh out of that phrase being the one we were all able to identify you with. Funny the things we say or do that stick in the memory. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">Update and refresher:</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">difficult child was diagnosis bipolar/adhd in kinder at 5 yrs. He'll be 11 in a couple of months. I was shocked with diagnosis. I just knew they would say ODD. We have tried close to 15 different medications. He was moved to a therapuetic campus in our school distict. He's been to the psychiatric hospital 3 times. Been to juvie 3 times, all for assaulting me, and those are just the times husband wasn't home to help me. I took him off all medications about 6 weeks ago. I am thrilled about that by the way. medications weren't doing anything anyway. I am more convinced than ever that his diagnosis should be ODD. He is going to a camp in early july for 3 weeks and hopefully to a boarding school affiliated with the camp when camp is over. Everyone cross your fingers! When people hear I can't physically control a kid his age they think I lost my mind. But he is as big as I am and has been for about a year. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">easy child 1 is doing ok. Just found out a couple of weeks ago she had sex. husband was devestated. Not like angry, but just shattered I guess. I was kind of relieved. I know that sounds nuts. But it was like looking at the ceiling knowing it was going to fall but not knowing when or how. So once it fell, okay. Now lets move on. I guess husband thought she might make it out o high school with everything intact. In the back of my mind I knew that was not likely. The cards are just stacked against that. She did tell us and that is good. But she told us because she was hurt when she found out he had a girlfriend. She needed a shoulder to cry on. Poor baby. Growing pains ****. Hopefully she will learn from it. That might also be why finding out your (LMS) easy child switched teams made me snicker. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">easy child 2 is a sweetie. He is 8 and we are now starting to see he recognizes all the chaos difficult child causes. I am also starting to notice he is trying to nurture me. I am glad he is a considerate and sensitive child, but I do not want him to carry that burden. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">This past school year is when all the juvie stuff happened with difficult child. The effect of difficult child on their lives has really slapped me and husband in the face now. I don't want it to be like this for them and we will have him placed somewhere. Not to mention the effect it has on me and husband which in turn affects our parenting of them.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">I totally get now why in some cultures now and way back when parents took a "defective" child out in the wilderness and left them. I know that sounds awful. But sometimes I think loosing one for the survival of the group has to be done. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">Okay. I guess this book is long enough.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="FlipFlops, post: 281485"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkorchid]HI TAMMY!![/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]You have no idea how many times I have wondered how things turned out with your boys. I knew about the surgery. I spent a little time yesterday going through some of the other posts you've made. I'm sorry to hear about the surgery. Had a little chuckle at the news of your easy child daughter. Only because I think about that sort of stuff with my PCs and think that would be nothing to deal with in the future after all that difficult child has pulled. Sorry husband had some trouble with it. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]GLad to hear things got better with difficult child 1. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]Congrats on Joey, and the one on the way. It would be special if the baby is born on your birthday. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]So what ever happened to Miss Snooty Booty?:happy:[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]I hope you got a laugh out of that phrase being the one we were all able to identify you with. Funny the things we say or do that stick in the memory. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc][/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]Update and refresher:[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]difficult child was diagnosis bipolar/adhd in kinder at 5 yrs. He'll be 11 in a couple of months. I was shocked with diagnosis. I just knew they would say ODD. We have tried close to 15 different medications. He was moved to a therapuetic campus in our school distict. He's been to the psychiatric hospital 3 times. Been to juvie 3 times, all for assaulting me, and those are just the times husband wasn't home to help me. I took him off all medications about 6 weeks ago. I am thrilled about that by the way. medications weren't doing anything anyway. I am more convinced than ever that his diagnosis should be ODD. He is going to a camp in early july for 3 weeks and hopefully to a boarding school affiliated with the camp when camp is over. Everyone cross your fingers! When people hear I can't physically control a kid his age they think I lost my mind. But he is as big as I am and has been for about a year. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]easy child 1 is doing ok. Just found out a couple of weeks ago she had sex. husband was devestated. Not like angry, but just shattered I guess. I was kind of relieved. I know that sounds nuts. But it was like looking at the ceiling knowing it was going to fall but not knowing when or how. So once it fell, okay. Now lets move on. I guess husband thought she might make it out o high school with everything intact. In the back of my mind I knew that was not likely. The cards are just stacked against that. She did tell us and that is good. But she told us because she was hurt when she found out he had a girlfriend. She needed a shoulder to cry on. Poor baby. Growing pains ****. Hopefully she will learn from it. That might also be why finding out your (LMS) easy child switched teams made me snicker. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]easy child 2 is a sweetie. He is 8 and we are now starting to see he recognizes all the chaos difficult child causes. I am also starting to notice he is trying to nurture me. I am glad he is a considerate and sensitive child, but I do not want him to carry that burden. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]This past school year is when all the juvie stuff happened with difficult child. The effect of difficult child on their lives has really slapped me and husband in the face now. I don't want it to be like this for them and we will have him placed somewhere. Not to mention the effect it has on me and husband which in turn affects our parenting of them.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]I totally get now why in some cultures now and way back when parents took a "defective" child out in the wilderness and left them. I know that sounds awful. But sometimes I think loosing one for the survival of the group has to be done. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]Okay. I guess this book is long enough.:winking:[/COLOR][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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