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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 634283" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>TL, I am right there with you. Remember my last post when I said that difficult child was doing well and asked to be a peer leader in her house for reduced rent? Well, right after that she got fired from her job and went out and got a prescription for xanax filled and was found with pain pills. The halfway house told her that she had to go to a 30-day inpatient program or they would drive her to the salvation army and drop her off.</p><p></p><p>She chose the inpatient program but from what we were told today she is still drug-seeking. The halfway house said that they would take her back only if she completes the inpatient program. I don't know what she is going to do if she gets kicked out of the inpatient program.</p><p></p><p>difficult child broke the contract that her therapist at the IOP had written which said that husband and I would cease all financial support if she relapsed. Her therapist is totally backing us sticking to the contract and even breaking off contact for a while which we have basically done.</p><p></p><p>I have been pulling back from difficult child for a long time now. I don't tolerate any manipulation and even hung up on her call last week when she and her therapist called from her therapist's office. She started with the old "I feel like you don't love me" since I told her that she was on her own now to figure things out. I told her that I wasn't listening to that and hung up. </p><p></p><p>Long story short, I believe I am finally ready to let go and let God. It took me a very long time to get here and I had to finally realize that I couldn't fix her. </p><p></p><p>{{{Hugs}}}</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 634283, member: 1967"] TL, I am right there with you. Remember my last post when I said that difficult child was doing well and asked to be a peer leader in her house for reduced rent? Well, right after that she got fired from her job and went out and got a prescription for xanax filled and was found with pain pills. The halfway house told her that she had to go to a 30-day inpatient program or they would drive her to the salvation army and drop her off. She chose the inpatient program but from what we were told today she is still drug-seeking. The halfway house said that they would take her back only if she completes the inpatient program. I don't know what she is going to do if she gets kicked out of the inpatient program. difficult child broke the contract that her therapist at the IOP had written which said that husband and I would cease all financial support if she relapsed. Her therapist is totally backing us sticking to the contract and even breaking off contact for a while which we have basically done. I have been pulling back from difficult child for a long time now. I don't tolerate any manipulation and even hung up on her call last week when she and her therapist called from her therapist's office. She started with the old "I feel like you don't love me" since I told her that she was on her own now to figure things out. I told her that I wasn't listening to that and hung up. Long story short, I believe I am finally ready to let go and let God. It took me a very long time to get here and I had to finally realize that I couldn't fix her. {{{Hugs}}} ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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