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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 112930" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Why would Godmother say she did not want to see him for one week??? And if Godfather was home he would be in more trouble???</p><p></p><p>He is 5! I think that is a bit much to be saying to a 5 yo... these things last and stay in there heads, JMO... Maybe he has to much on him and he is rebelling, maybe he can feel all of the stress and it is building up? Maybe too much is expected of him? </p><p></p><p>K is 6 1/2 and she would fall apart if someone said that to her... she also would never be able to live somewhere and not be able to not touch, it is part of her sensory issues... not whether she is good or bad. She tries so hard, but sometimes she can't help it.</p><p>She even sneaks candy, and she really is a good kid!!! But sometimes she can't help it, she says her naughty hands just do it...</p><p>He is a kid, and he has issues, and he is living in a stressful environment to boot!!!</p><p>I am not saying that these people are not doing a wonderful thing... but please do not put too much on this little guy, because you will pay later on. and so will he. </p><p></p><p>We can't expect these kids to be perfect... I am in no way saying he should be let off the hook for everything... but sometimes we all need to look at what we expect from our kids... and what they are capable of. </p><p>I think you need a break and so does he... I am thinking of you and him... and hoping you can get one soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 112930, member: 3155"] Why would Godmother say she did not want to see him for one week??? And if Godfather was home he would be in more trouble??? He is 5! I think that is a bit much to be saying to a 5 yo... these things last and stay in there heads, JMO... Maybe he has to much on him and he is rebelling, maybe he can feel all of the stress and it is building up? Maybe too much is expected of him? K is 6 1/2 and she would fall apart if someone said that to her... she also would never be able to live somewhere and not be able to not touch, it is part of her sensory issues... not whether she is good or bad. She tries so hard, but sometimes she can't help it. She even sneaks candy, and she really is a good kid!!! But sometimes she can't help it, she says her naughty hands just do it... He is a kid, and he has issues, and he is living in a stressful environment to boot!!! I am not saying that these people are not doing a wonderful thing... but please do not put too much on this little guy, because you will pay later on. and so will he. We can't expect these kids to be perfect... I am in no way saying he should be let off the hook for everything... but sometimes we all need to look at what we expect from our kids... and what they are capable of. I think you need a break and so does he... I am thinking of you and him... and hoping you can get one soon. [/QUOTE]
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