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I just got neighbor girl in trouble :(
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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 314143" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>It ends up that Diva and the boy went outside to talk. The neighbor girl overheard them and THOUGHT she heard Diva telling the boy to go buy Diva beer. I think she overhear Diva telling him he could go get some but not necessarily for her. </p><p> </p><p>After talking to Diva and the neighbor girl, the boy did not get it while the girls were with him. According to Diva, it was for himself for a later time. The neighbor girl said they have never drank in front of her.</p><p> </p><p>The girl's mom is angry because the girl is getting into a habit of eavesdropping and spreading rumors. The knowledge I got from what the girl said, had me getting angry with Diva and I am sure it also upset difficult child. So, the mom is trying to teach the girl about how rumors hurt people.</p><p> </p><p>The mom told the girl, "Look what trouble you caused in their family! You can not be repeating things you don't know the whole story about to people." If this was the first time it happened, I don't think the mom would have been so angry. I told her it sounds like the girl just misunderstood what is going on. Her mom says she likes to be the one with info that tells other people. And of course, difficult child was really the only one she could tell this story to since he is the only one at school to know Diva.</p><p> </p><p>I told the girl and her mom that I am sorry to have caused problems in their family. I told the girl that I was looking out for her well being. That she can not be exposed to drinking or bad language and if that is going on when she is with Diva, she can no longer spend time with Diva.</p><p> </p><p>I also told her do not be angry with difficult child. difficult child was only looking out for both her and Diva. He knew that this could be a very serious situation. I also told the mom that what if there really was something going on and I didn't address it when I heard about it?</p><p> </p><p>I am just glad that Diva is not taking the girl to were there is drinking.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 314143, member: 5096"] It ends up that Diva and the boy went outside to talk. The neighbor girl overheard them and THOUGHT she heard Diva telling the boy to go buy Diva beer. I think she overhear Diva telling him he could go get some but not necessarily for her. After talking to Diva and the neighbor girl, the boy did not get it while the girls were with him. According to Diva, it was for himself for a later time. The neighbor girl said they have never drank in front of her. The girl's mom is angry because the girl is getting into a habit of eavesdropping and spreading rumors. The knowledge I got from what the girl said, had me getting angry with Diva and I am sure it also upset difficult child. So, the mom is trying to teach the girl about how rumors hurt people. The mom told the girl, "Look what trouble you caused in their family! You can not be repeating things you don't know the whole story about to people." If this was the first time it happened, I don't think the mom would have been so angry. I told her it sounds like the girl just misunderstood what is going on. Her mom says she likes to be the one with info that tells other people. And of course, difficult child was really the only one she could tell this story to since he is the only one at school to know Diva. I told the girl and her mom that I am sorry to have caused problems in their family. I told the girl that I was looking out for her well being. That she can not be exposed to drinking or bad language and if that is going on when she is with Diva, she can no longer spend time with Diva. I also told her do not be angry with difficult child. difficult child was only looking out for both her and Diva. He knew that this could be a very serious situation. I also told the mom that what if there really was something going on and I didn't address it when I heard about it? I am just glad that Diva is not taking the girl to were there is drinking. [/QUOTE]
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