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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 292177" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Thank you guys... It's been a bit of a trial today.</p><p> </p><p>To start from the beginning, I went to work. husband got up and went to the mall to get Onyxx plain black pantyhose and some clear studs for her lip rings - she wanted the judge to see that she is making an attempt to respect the court.</p><p> </p><p>So I left work at noon to drive straight to the courthouse since it's 30 minutes from work . I get halfway there - on a road that has no right turns available - when husband calls. THE TRUCK WON'T START.</p><p> </p><p>AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGHHHHH!<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p> </p><p>So I get turned to go back home (25 minutes from where I was, and it was now 12:20), call father in law and ask where he is. 5 minutes from husband. He goes & gets husband and drops him at mother in law's. mother in law takes charge of Jett and gives husband her car keys. He gets Onyxx from home (3 minutes from mother in law's), and calls me when I am - no joke - 5 minutes from home. I turn and head back to the courthouse. I get there at 1:05 - husband and Onyxx about 1:10.</p><p> </p><p>The lawyer talks to husband for a few minutes, then brings me in. He says if we just agree, it will be the 3 days that have been suspended from before and maybe 10 more, suspended, but if we go through with a hearing it will probably be 63 days. (60 + the 3). husband and my response? HEARING!!! Lawyer brings in Onyxx and asks if she will testify in front of her mother - because judge will NOT talk to her in chambers. WHAT THE---???!!! </p><p> </p><p>Onyxx, of course, is hyped. "YES!"</p><p> </p><p>So husband and lawyer go into courtroom. 20 minutes... Lawyer comes out & gets Onyxx. I have to pee but wait 'cause I'm too nervous. Onyxx was in there only a few minutes. They asked her if we encouraged them to go, if she had seen the batcave since last court, why she didn't want to go, if creep was the only reason (and she said NO, she was tired of the emotional and verbal and physical abuse), if Jett visits without Onyxx (he does). About 5 minutes. About 5 minutes after she came back, lawyer comes back in with husband's briefcase and says that they took him from the courtroom. Lawyer tried to get it set up so that husband could go on days he was not at work and the judge said he wasn't impressed with that.</p><p> </p><p>I keep having to censor myself. And those of you who met me know I don't curse that much!</p><p> </p><p>Called Mom & Dad, then mother in law, father in law, Stang, my best friends (2 people), and about 10 different numbers to get husband's boss. Fortunately she knew it might happen. However this could mess up his security clearance! And it's still early days on the job. Also, they are reinvestigating most of my office and I'm on the list - since he is my husband, it may mess up my clearance. If he loses his job - or I do (not likely) - #$%^&*()</p><p> </p><p>Dad came up & got me, we took husband's medications to him at the jail (5 bottles, I emptied out all but 3 days' worth), then to the courthouse (domestic relations is in a different place from the criminal court), got mother in law's car, back to mother in law's, drop car, get Jett, back home. Mom offered to bring up dinner, but I think it's best if I treat this as any other evening when husband is at work.</p><p> </p><p>Onyxx did talk to Jett. Now he is afraid to visit the batcave - I have no idea what she said to him... Sigh. However I didn't have to! Anyway, I told him she wouldn't hurt him, and if she DID, to call 911. Immediately.</p><p> </p><p>Also lawyer says she must return Jett to me tomorrow night. If she keeps him - !!!!!</p><p> </p><p>Mom & Dad are talking to lawyer about civil suit. Against batcave <strong>and</strong> against the county/state/whatever.</p><p> </p><p>Same judge. This guy is toast when we get to the news.</p><p> </p><p>Well I'm going to go start dinner and get together all the documentation I can find for the news. I'm so angry right now... ARR! I bet coming from a 14-y/o and stepmom it will be much better than from husband himself. We're female!</p><p> </p><p>Also, thank you guys. All of you. I'm holding it together because you all are here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 292177, member: 6705"] Thank you guys... It's been a bit of a trial today. To start from the beginning, I went to work. husband got up and went to the mall to get Onyxx plain black pantyhose and some clear studs for her lip rings - she wanted the judge to see that she is making an attempt to respect the court. So I left work at noon to drive straight to the courthouse since it's 30 minutes from work . I get halfway there - on a road that has no right turns available - when husband calls. THE TRUCK WON'T START. AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGHHHHH!:knockedout: So I get turned to go back home (25 minutes from where I was, and it was now 12:20), call father in law and ask where he is. 5 minutes from husband. He goes & gets husband and drops him at mother in law's. mother in law takes charge of Jett and gives husband her car keys. He gets Onyxx from home (3 minutes from mother in law's), and calls me when I am - no joke - 5 minutes from home. I turn and head back to the courthouse. I get there at 1:05 - husband and Onyxx about 1:10. The lawyer talks to husband for a few minutes, then brings me in. He says if we just agree, it will be the 3 days that have been suspended from before and maybe 10 more, suspended, but if we go through with a hearing it will probably be 63 days. (60 + the 3). husband and my response? HEARING!!! Lawyer brings in Onyxx and asks if she will testify in front of her mother - because judge will NOT talk to her in chambers. WHAT THE---???!!! Onyxx, of course, is hyped. "YES!" So husband and lawyer go into courtroom. 20 minutes... Lawyer comes out & gets Onyxx. I have to pee but wait 'cause I'm too nervous. Onyxx was in there only a few minutes. They asked her if we encouraged them to go, if she had seen the batcave since last court, why she didn't want to go, if creep was the only reason (and she said NO, she was tired of the emotional and verbal and physical abuse), if Jett visits without Onyxx (he does). About 5 minutes. About 5 minutes after she came back, lawyer comes back in with husband's briefcase and says that they took him from the courtroom. Lawyer tried to get it set up so that husband could go on days he was not at work and the judge said he wasn't impressed with that. I keep having to censor myself. And those of you who met me know I don't curse that much! Called Mom & Dad, then mother in law, father in law, Stang, my best friends (2 people), and about 10 different numbers to get husband's boss. Fortunately she knew it might happen. However this could mess up his security clearance! And it's still early days on the job. Also, they are reinvestigating most of my office and I'm on the list - since he is my husband, it may mess up my clearance. If he loses his job - or I do (not likely) - #$%^&*() Dad came up & got me, we took husband's medications to him at the jail (5 bottles, I emptied out all but 3 days' worth), then to the courthouse (domestic relations is in a different place from the criminal court), got mother in law's car, back to mother in law's, drop car, get Jett, back home. Mom offered to bring up dinner, but I think it's best if I treat this as any other evening when husband is at work. Onyxx did talk to Jett. Now he is afraid to visit the batcave - I have no idea what she said to him... Sigh. However I didn't have to! Anyway, I told him she wouldn't hurt him, and if she DID, to call 911. Immediately. Also lawyer says she must return Jett to me tomorrow night. If she keeps him - !!!!! Mom & Dad are talking to lawyer about civil suit. Against batcave [B]and[/B] against the county/state/whatever. Same judge. This guy is toast when we get to the news. Well I'm going to go start dinner and get together all the documentation I can find for the news. I'm so angry right now... ARR! I bet coming from a 14-y/o and stepmom it will be much better than from husband himself. We're female! Also, thank you guys. All of you. I'm holding it together because you all are here. [/QUOTE]
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