Antsmom
I think I said that wrong, I am not doing it on purpose, I am NOT allowing him to drug in my home! Once I can confirm that he has been using again while in my home I will tell him that he has to leave. This time I will give him a week or 2 to find a room or place to go, I will not throw him out in the street as I have done before.
He is trying, I can see that. I have my suspicions on his drug use, I spy on him but I need to have concrete factss to tell him to leave.
This is why I needed to write it down, Gotta was in the planning stage of helping her son, she had just basically found out about the heroin a few months before if I remember correctly, he son was on Subooxone and trying to do better. I have been through all of the planning stages. I know there isnt anything left that can help him but him. IF something were to happen, IF he relapsed I would prefer him to be in my home, not to say that if it happened he would be home but his current lifestyle would not be so tragic. Right now to the best of my knowledge he is trying to stay clean. He is home often, he got a job, he gets up for that job. When he goes out he comes home by 1am. I do suspect that he has used but I cant be sure 100%.
I dont know what I mean exactly, but I still stand by the fact that he can NOT use drugs and live in my home. I am NOT turning the other way and pretending its not happening. He will have to leave if he makes that choice.
Sorry if I am rambling on and on.
