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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 494314" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Big hugs! We understand.</p><p>With V, there is NO way I could schedule all those activities. It would be just too much to handle.</p><p>We do things, but I usually limit it to one thing at a time. And not too often.</p><p>People don't understand why I'm not eager to just run around places and keep the kids entertained. It simply is TOO much and completly counter productive in our family. </p><p>Yes, sometimes I wish we could go to the park, then hit some stores and restaurant all the same day. But if we do that: complete nightmare and very stressfull for me.</p><p>My parents get bored when they come over, but I have learned to just say "no, it's too much". </p><p>I know you wish for playdates and regular activities, but... it can be really overstimulating.</p><p>Sometimes, even an extra stop to where ever (bank, pharmacy, etc) will be too uch and I just won't do it. There is always tomorrow. Is it a waste of time and miles? Yes. But it saves our sanity and very fragile peace.</p><p>It would be sooo much easier to have 3 easy child... but I have 2 easy child(ish) and 1 difficult child...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 494314, member: 11847"] Big hugs! We understand. With V, there is NO way I could schedule all those activities. It would be just too much to handle. We do things, but I usually limit it to one thing at a time. And not too often. People don't understand why I'm not eager to just run around places and keep the kids entertained. It simply is TOO much and completly counter productive in our family. Yes, sometimes I wish we could go to the park, then hit some stores and restaurant all the same day. But if we do that: complete nightmare and very stressfull for me. My parents get bored when they come over, but I have learned to just say "no, it's too much". I know you wish for playdates and regular activities, but... it can be really overstimulating. Sometimes, even an extra stop to where ever (bank, pharmacy, etc) will be too uch and I just won't do it. There is always tomorrow. Is it a waste of time and miles? Yes. But it saves our sanity and very fragile peace. It would be sooo much easier to have 3 easy child... but I have 2 easy child(ish) and 1 difficult child... [/QUOTE]
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