difficult child opened a coin collection so he could have more cash at the mall yesterday. Yes, it belonged to him, but now it's only worth face value. husband took the leftover coins and I don't know what he's going to do with them. husband also found a new lighter in the pocket of difficult child's pants. It's got a picture of weed embossed on it. Sure, it's just a lighter, and it's cool, but given his history, this is something I will take up with-the therapist on Tues. In the meantime, mum's the word.