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I know I need to let go, but how?
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<blockquote data-quote="Esri" data-source="post: 630972" data-attributes="member: 18126"><p>Thank you all so much for your suggestions and support. Boy do I need it! Ha!</p><p></p><p>After seeing my daughter a few times in about 3 weeks she's been gone, we just went almost 4 days no contact. She texted me today and we kept it short and sweet.</p><p></p><p>I was feeling pretty good. Than I read her FB that showed her getting her belly pierced. The piercing itself, I don't care about. It's the way I found out. </p><p></p><p>Granted, she doesn't need my permission to make these choices but it hurt and I weakly traced her.</p><p></p><p>Me: so now I gave to find our from FB about your piercings? Wow, would have been nice to let me know.</p><p></p><p>her: I was just going to let you know.</p><p></p><p>Me: I don't care about the piercing. I was just surprised to read about it. You don't have to ask for my permission. I guess I need to get use to the fact that our relationship will be different now. You seem to want your distance.</p><p></p><p>Her: I'm sorry I don't know what else to say.</p><p></p><p>Me: are you happier with us not bring as close?</p><p></p><p>Her: I don't know</p><p></p><p>Me: Why have you pushed me away? Was I that horrible? </p><p></p><p>Her: I don't know</p><p></p><p>-------------</p><p></p><p>I could kick my dumb ass for doing this!!! I was Exactly what we talk about on here to NOT be. It's only been a few weeks but apparently I am a slow learner.</p><p></p><p>Why did I keep pushing?? </p><p></p><p>I fear I set us back even further.</p><p></p><p>This sucks.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Me 42 husband 40</p><p>DD1 18 DD2 9</p><p></p><p>My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Esri, post: 630972, member: 18126"] Thank you all so much for your suggestions and support. Boy do I need it! Ha! After seeing my daughter a few times in about 3 weeks she's been gone, we just went almost 4 days no contact. She texted me today and we kept it short and sweet. I was feeling pretty good. Than I read her FB that showed her getting her belly pierced. The piercing itself, I don't care about. It's the way I found out. Granted, she doesn't need my permission to make these choices but it hurt and I weakly traced her. Me: so now I gave to find our from FB about your piercings? Wow, would have been nice to let me know. her: I was just going to let you know. Me: I don't care about the piercing. I was just surprised to read about it. You don't have to ask for my permission. I guess I need to get use to the fact that our relationship will be different now. You seem to want your distance. Her: I'm sorry I don't know what else to say. Me: are you happier with us not bring as close? Her: I don't know Me: Why have you pushed me away? Was I that horrible? Her: I don't know ------------- I could kick my dumb ass for doing this!!! I was Exactly what we talk about on here to NOT be. It's only been a few weeks but apparently I am a slow learner. Why did I keep pushing?? I fear I set us back even further. This sucks. Me 42 husband 40 DD1 18 DD2 9 My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. [/QUOTE]
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