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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 406666" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Step, contact a lawyer, have husband call them on it. I didn't even know you could do that, until while filing for bankruptcy the lawyer told us he'd take care of it. </p><p></p><p>We had Oh and Mo battling over balances for like 5 yrs. Then Mo told us twice it was paid off, twice went back on it 3 months later........... yeah. Lawyer did take care of it. First it was getting our tax returns reinstated. (we hadn't seen one after our 2nd yr of marriage) but then about 3 months later low and behold Mo did this huge audit of our acct. Next thing we know.........husband gets several thousand dollars in CS back from Mo with an apology. </p><p></p><p>This is why I believe child support system should be shut down completely. It's so broken it's not even funny. I won't even go into the women out there popping out babies as fast as possible by as many males as possible just to collect CS, they same way they used to collect welfare. </p><p></p><p>Yes I believe both parents should be responsible about supporting their child. But the child support system doesn't not force that. Those who would have normally supported their kids are the ones paying. Those who wouldn't........still don't and find ways to continue not to. Very few people are actually forced by child support to pay up and by the time they are the child is usually nearly grown and so what the heck is the point?? Dunno just saying the govt can't make a loser be responsible. </p><p></p><p>My biodad was one of those irresponsible losers who chose to forget his 1st 5 kids for the 3 of his 2nd wife. Mom went through heck and back trying to get him to pay. He went to prison for a year over it. Still not one payment ever. Not one. Taught my bros to never walk out on your kids. Taught all of us there is no such thing as a free lunch, it's root hog or die. Tough lessons. Was a tough childhood. We learned, we came out better for it. While dear ol' dad is sitting alone in a nursing home somewhere in indiana with no visitors, no phone calls, nothing. Karma is a b*tch. </p><p></p><p>After being involved with katie and M severely neglecting / abusing my grands since the day they came into the world.......living off govt programs, the charity of others.......always flying under the radar.........Those kids should have been removed 10 yrs ago. Only now do we stand at the brink of that happening. </p><p></p><p>I lost faith in the govt systems ages ago. They're so broken.......so ridiculous. And they think they can run a healthcare system? Uh no, I seriously know they can't. ugh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 406666, member: 84"] Step, contact a lawyer, have husband call them on it. I didn't even know you could do that, until while filing for bankruptcy the lawyer told us he'd take care of it. We had Oh and Mo battling over balances for like 5 yrs. Then Mo told us twice it was paid off, twice went back on it 3 months later........... yeah. Lawyer did take care of it. First it was getting our tax returns reinstated. (we hadn't seen one after our 2nd yr of marriage) but then about 3 months later low and behold Mo did this huge audit of our acct. Next thing we know.........husband gets several thousand dollars in CS back from Mo with an apology. This is why I believe child support system should be shut down completely. It's so broken it's not even funny. I won't even go into the women out there popping out babies as fast as possible by as many males as possible just to collect CS, they same way they used to collect welfare. Yes I believe both parents should be responsible about supporting their child. But the child support system doesn't not force that. Those who would have normally supported their kids are the ones paying. Those who wouldn't........still don't and find ways to continue not to. Very few people are actually forced by child support to pay up and by the time they are the child is usually nearly grown and so what the heck is the point?? Dunno just saying the govt can't make a loser be responsible. My biodad was one of those irresponsible losers who chose to forget his 1st 5 kids for the 3 of his 2nd wife. Mom went through heck and back trying to get him to pay. He went to prison for a year over it. Still not one payment ever. Not one. Taught my bros to never walk out on your kids. Taught all of us there is no such thing as a free lunch, it's root hog or die. Tough lessons. Was a tough childhood. We learned, we came out better for it. While dear ol' dad is sitting alone in a nursing home somewhere in indiana with no visitors, no phone calls, nothing. Karma is a b*tch. After being involved with katie and M severely neglecting / abusing my grands since the day they came into the world.......living off govt programs, the charity of others.......always flying under the radar.........Those kids should have been removed 10 yrs ago. Only now do we stand at the brink of that happening. I lost faith in the govt systems ages ago. They're so broken.......so ridiculous. And they think they can run a healthcare system? Uh no, I seriously know they can't. ugh [/QUOTE]
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