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I Know I'm Just Preaching to the Choir - But Here Goes..
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 406799" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>OHHHHHHHH This thread is getting to me... LOL... Because back when husband was paying support? It was based on her income - and what the judge DECIDED husband COULD MAKE. It's called "imputed income" and it's perfectly legal, and can be back-dated up to the child's birth - AND - any forgiveness of CS canNOT be backdated at all. It took husband's support from $100 a month (not bad, but considering he could not get/keep a job with BM stalking him, with a CPO against him... I know this is true, all the open "child molestation" investigations popped up on his security checks - to $600 a month. WHAT?! He had managed to get a PART-TIME JOB, earning about $300 a month total, because it was an on-call thing. He was IN SCHOOL, getting paid by the VA to go to school. He had to quit school because of her antics with the kids. Meaning? I'm glad he's got his koi together with his business, because otherwise...</p><p> </p><p>The judge said husband <strong><em><u>*could*</u></em></strong> earn $5000 a month <em>after taxes</em>.</p><p> </p><p>OK I have a degree, I have been there for 8 years and I don't earn $3K a month after taxes. And I'm overpaid for what I do!!!</p><p> </p><p>Now when husband got residential? He had had a job for almost 6 months, so they used that. They decided she would pay based on the <em>previous year's income</em>, where she had helf a PART-TIME JOB at Waffle House for 4 months.</p><p> </p><p>Honestly? The child support we are SUPPOSED to get, wouldn't pay for groceries <em>for the kids only</em>. And we don't even get that. But - you know what? If we could have her STOP SUPPORT and just GO AWAY? Yeah, I know that's not gonna happen. But darn, it's a nice dream.</p><p> </p><p>And husband hasn't been able to ask the lawyer to go back for a review of support. Supposed to be able to do it after 18 months, but we've only had the new judge for 1 year. Kids for 4... But we're doing it, because we're gonna need LOTS of help with Onyxx's treatment. Not that she will pay - we have determined that she owes ME - not counting what husband has spent, just ME - well over $12K for raising her kids. Assuming she only pays her 34% that the court says she must (and hasn't yet). Actual bills have been submitted and - She won't pay husband until he can show he has paid the DOCTOR, but she will only PAY the DOCTOR. (Hello? Wait a second. If the doctor's already paid? Yeah. We're not that stupid.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 406799, member: 6705"] OHHHHHHHH This thread is getting to me... LOL... Because back when husband was paying support? It was based on her income - and what the judge DECIDED husband COULD MAKE. It's called "imputed income" and it's perfectly legal, and can be back-dated up to the child's birth - AND - any forgiveness of CS canNOT be backdated at all. It took husband's support from $100 a month (not bad, but considering he could not get/keep a job with BM stalking him, with a CPO against him... I know this is true, all the open "child molestation" investigations popped up on his security checks - to $600 a month. WHAT?! He had managed to get a PART-TIME JOB, earning about $300 a month total, because it was an on-call thing. He was IN SCHOOL, getting paid by the VA to go to school. He had to quit school because of her antics with the kids. Meaning? I'm glad he's got his koi together with his business, because otherwise... The judge said husband [B][I][U]*could*[/U][/I][/B] earn $5000 a month [I]after taxes[/I]. OK I have a degree, I have been there for 8 years and I don't earn $3K a month after taxes. And I'm overpaid for what I do!!! Now when husband got residential? He had had a job for almost 6 months, so they used that. They decided she would pay based on the [I]previous year's income[/I], where she had helf a PART-TIME JOB at Waffle House for 4 months. Honestly? The child support we are SUPPOSED to get, wouldn't pay for groceries [I]for the kids only[/I]. And we don't even get that. But - you know what? If we could have her STOP SUPPORT and just GO AWAY? Yeah, I know that's not gonna happen. But darn, it's a nice dream. And husband hasn't been able to ask the lawyer to go back for a review of support. Supposed to be able to do it after 18 months, but we've only had the new judge for 1 year. Kids for 4... But we're doing it, because we're gonna need LOTS of help with Onyxx's treatment. Not that she will pay - we have determined that she owes ME - not counting what husband has spent, just ME - well over $12K for raising her kids. Assuming she only pays her 34% that the court says she must (and hasn't yet). Actual bills have been submitted and - She won't pay husband until he can show he has paid the DOCTOR, but she will only PAY the DOCTOR. (Hello? Wait a second. If the doctor's already paid? Yeah. We're not that stupid.) [/QUOTE]
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