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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 472701" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I swear this is absurd. He needs to grow up enough to tell one of you the truth. If he actually, truthfully intends to have his mommy live with him until she dies then he needs to just come out and tell you that is what he intends to do and you can like it or not. That would be what a grown up would do. </p><p></p><p>Back in 1990 Tony and I had to have a very difficult discussion about returning to Lumberton because his grandmother was getting too old to continue to live in the town with no one else around. He had promised me from the time we met that he would never take me back there to live and now he was asking me to do just that. Believe me, this is not a town I really wanted to live in for a long time...lol. We also discussed the fact that when we moved here we wanted to keep the boys here for the rest of their school years because we didnt want to drag them hither and yon changing schools all the time. So getting stuck here was it. I did it because I wanted him to do what he felt was best and then we know that he returned the favor when my mom moved in with us later on. </p><p></p><p>But the thing is...we talked about it. We never demanded it or hid it or left the other one out of the decision making process. All of these important decisions about our lives were made together and hello...we are not married! We have been together longer than most marriages but still. We have always said that if we ever signed that piece of paper we would probably end up on Divorce Court in a month...lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 472701, member: 1514"] I swear this is absurd. He needs to grow up enough to tell one of you the truth. If he actually, truthfully intends to have his mommy live with him until she dies then he needs to just come out and tell you that is what he intends to do and you can like it or not. That would be what a grown up would do. Back in 1990 Tony and I had to have a very difficult discussion about returning to Lumberton because his grandmother was getting too old to continue to live in the town with no one else around. He had promised me from the time we met that he would never take me back there to live and now he was asking me to do just that. Believe me, this is not a town I really wanted to live in for a long time...lol. We also discussed the fact that when we moved here we wanted to keep the boys here for the rest of their school years because we didnt want to drag them hither and yon changing schools all the time. So getting stuck here was it. I did it because I wanted him to do what he felt was best and then we know that he returned the favor when my mom moved in with us later on. But the thing is...we talked about it. We never demanded it or hid it or left the other one out of the decision making process. All of these important decisions about our lives were made together and hello...we are not married! We have been together longer than most marriages but still. We have always said that if we ever signed that piece of paper we would probably end up on Divorce Court in a month...lol [/QUOTE]
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