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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 221514" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi and thank you everyone i soo appreciate your words. I know it's not that big of a deal yet when i realized that i'd reached too far for her and i was giving her another potential issue to handle if felt so bad. Last thing she needed.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, i spoke to them again this time directly to the guy that works with her. Their on the last 5 weeks of the practice now, so he knows he can't find a replacement to learn the lines and the dances this quickly so he said YES!! Yea. So,he also said come to think of it maybe you could come the other few girls with whom have never been on stage and help them out. Most of the kids have done plays before.</p><p> </p><p>So, he called difficult child into the studio and said to her i have no problem with mom being there for you, i think it's great this way if you need something she can give it to you. The only thing is Mom can't come on stage <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> JK and you can't run off stage if you get scared to Mom.</p><p> </p><p>So, difficult child seems to be swallowing this ok for now. I said i'll be a matter of feet away, we will have no one that we know come the first night. we'll tell them the second night they can come. She's still scared, I can handle scared, it's the bouncing off the walls up till 3 a.m. i don't want her to have to handle and the anxiety leading up to it for the next 5 weeks. So, i told her to get busy "work mode" and start writing about it tonight how she feels about it, draw some pictures about it. Drawings' huge for her. So, she's on the living room floor infront of me drawing away.</p><p> </p><p>here's hoping. They have 4 performances. they have to take the day off from school one day to perform for schools at the theatre, than a few hours break and it's opening night. Then we wake up and do two more shows, or she does the next day.</p><p> </p><p>Can you imagine?? by the way i had no idea it was this intense. it's a local dance company very well known for their work yet this is new the theatre group their starting. should be an experience.</p><p> </p><p>smallworld - thanks again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 221514, member: 4514"] hi and thank you everyone i soo appreciate your words. I know it's not that big of a deal yet when i realized that i'd reached too far for her and i was giving her another potential issue to handle if felt so bad. Last thing she needed. Anyway, i spoke to them again this time directly to the guy that works with her. Their on the last 5 weeks of the practice now, so he knows he can't find a replacement to learn the lines and the dances this quickly so he said YES!! Yea. So,he also said come to think of it maybe you could come the other few girls with whom have never been on stage and help them out. Most of the kids have done plays before. So, he called difficult child into the studio and said to her i have no problem with mom being there for you, i think it's great this way if you need something she can give it to you. The only thing is Mom can't come on stage :( JK and you can't run off stage if you get scared to Mom. So, difficult child seems to be swallowing this ok for now. I said i'll be a matter of feet away, we will have no one that we know come the first night. we'll tell them the second night they can come. She's still scared, I can handle scared, it's the bouncing off the walls up till 3 a.m. i don't want her to have to handle and the anxiety leading up to it for the next 5 weeks. So, i told her to get busy "work mode" and start writing about it tonight how she feels about it, draw some pictures about it. Drawings' huge for her. So, she's on the living room floor infront of me drawing away. here's hoping. They have 4 performances. they have to take the day off from school one day to perform for schools at the theatre, than a few hours break and it's opening night. Then we wake up and do two more shows, or she does the next day. Can you imagine?? by the way i had no idea it was this intense. it's a local dance company very well known for their work yet this is new the theatre group their starting. should be an experience. smallworld - thanks again. [/QUOTE]
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