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I messed up, fiance moved out and now I don't know what to do
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 501656" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I LOVE the "Idea-Think-Do". It phrases it so clearly and concisely. </p><p></p><p>Around my house we don't call it ADHD or ADD. It is ADOS - Attention Deficit OooH SHiny. And even though Wiz is the only one of us who has the diagnosis or would ever qualify for it, we ALL succumb to ADOS now and then.</p><p></p><p>You are doing great. You messed up. You realized it. Now you see the problems and are taking big steps to find solutions. You really can't ask more of anyone, including yourself, than that.</p><p></p><p>The break and therapy might be exactly what both of you need to start marriage on a solid foundation. Alsor ealize that problems are not short term. husband and I still quarrel over the same things we did the first year we were married. We just celebrated our 20th last August. So you will ALWAYS need to work on stuff. Which means that what seems like a crisis really isn't, and it CAN be worked through!</p><p></p><p>Congrats on talking it through and really seeing the problem and seeking help. in my opinion it is HUGE HUGE HUGE!</p><p></p><p>Also congrats on the job and getting help getting difficult child to school! You found a solution for that problem, didn''t you? Celebrate your successes - even the little ones. It gives you fuel to keep on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 501656, member: 1233"] I LOVE the "Idea-Think-Do". It phrases it so clearly and concisely. Around my house we don't call it ADHD or ADD. It is ADOS - Attention Deficit OooH SHiny. And even though Wiz is the only one of us who has the diagnosis or would ever qualify for it, we ALL succumb to ADOS now and then. You are doing great. You messed up. You realized it. Now you see the problems and are taking big steps to find solutions. You really can't ask more of anyone, including yourself, than that. The break and therapy might be exactly what both of you need to start marriage on a solid foundation. Alsor ealize that problems are not short term. husband and I still quarrel over the same things we did the first year we were married. We just celebrated our 20th last August. So you will ALWAYS need to work on stuff. Which means that what seems like a crisis really isn't, and it CAN be worked through! Congrats on talking it through and really seeing the problem and seeking help. in my opinion it is HUGE HUGE HUGE! Also congrats on the job and getting help getting difficult child to school! You found a solution for that problem, didn''t you? Celebrate your successes - even the little ones. It gives you fuel to keep on. [/QUOTE]
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