I've been on the board now for 4yrs HH, and I'm still not detached.
Suz gave you a link to a post that's real helpful. It's nice to have these quick little things to say. It also feels good not to cave into the rants and the whines of difficult child's. It evens out the power battle.
It's true, we can't change them, we can only change our reaction to them.
