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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 55063" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I am here for the honest responses! I appreciate you all taking the time to respond and share your opinions!</p><p></p><p>I agree with you all.</p><p></p><p>Maybe there is a time when ~ I just need to get something out and for him to hear it.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I also agree that my son only heard my disatisfaction with how he was living. He didn't hear the praying or the loving part.</p><p></p><p>This dance is much longer than I ever dreamed it would be.</p><p></p><p>Each time I think I am there, I realize I have only just begun.</p><p></p><p>I am pulling up the archives you suggested Suz.</p><p></p><p>This was the first time I had spoken to him since he left ~ I was not prepared.</p><p></p><p>I went to the meeting and plan to go back. Hopefully, with what I learn thru alanon,the experiences that you all share with me and many prayers I will learn to change myself.</p><p></p><p>I did realize last night that I have to change. I thought I had, but the meeting last night opened my eyes. My thoughts, my reactions and my words~~~to everyone involved ~ has to change for me to deal with this situation in a productive way.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Please don't ever think you could offend me with your responses ~ I am here for honest opinions. </p><p></p><p> Sometimes I am too close to the situation to get a clear picture of what is really happening, I thank God for having you all on this board to shake me and tell me what is going on.</p><p></p><p>Thank you ALL!!</p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 55063, member: 2389"] I am here for the honest responses! I appreciate you all taking the time to respond and share your opinions! I agree with you all. Maybe there is a time when ~ I just need to get something out and for him to hear it. I also agree that my son only heard my disatisfaction with how he was living. He didn't hear the praying or the loving part. This dance is much longer than I ever dreamed it would be. Each time I think I am there, I realize I have only just begun. I am pulling up the archives you suggested Suz. This was the first time I had spoken to him since he left ~ I was not prepared. I went to the meeting and plan to go back. Hopefully, with what I learn thru alanon,the experiences that you all share with me and many prayers I will learn to change myself. I did realize last night that I have to change. I thought I had, but the meeting last night opened my eyes. My thoughts, my reactions and my words~~~to everyone involved ~ has to change for me to deal with this situation in a productive way. Please don't ever think you could offend me with your responses ~ I am here for honest opinions. Sometimes I am too close to the situation to get a clear picture of what is really happening, I thank God for having you all on this board to shake me and tell me what is going on. Thank you ALL!! Traci [/QUOTE]
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