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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 658120" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>And she will keep doing it. And there is nothing you an do about it.</p><p></p><p>I feel for you so much and wish it weren't so, but if this daughter is in her 40's and hasn't had an "aha" moment yet, it is unlikely she thinks she needs to change or else she likes her manipulative, hateaful ways. And you can't control her, but you can control what you do with your life. Unfortunately, it involves a grandchild, but people like this continuously use their grandchildren against us and legally they can.</p><p></p><p>No matter how nice tyou are, this daughter is going to slap you down with venom.</p><p></p><p>Please think of yourself first this time and see your grandchild if offered, but sadly don't let her know how important he is to you. The more important she thinks he is to you, the more viciously she will use him to control and hurt you and t hen withdraw him.</p><p></p><p>Try to look for the peace and happiness of each day, and focus off of this daughter...even though it includes your grandchild. You are at her mercy whether or not you see him, but begging to THIS daughter will make you look weak and will probably give her satisfaction. For some reason, she wants to tear you apart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 658120, member: 1550"] And she will keep doing it. And there is nothing you an do about it. I feel for you so much and wish it weren't so, but if this daughter is in her 40's and hasn't had an "aha" moment yet, it is unlikely she thinks she needs to change or else she likes her manipulative, hateaful ways. And you can't control her, but you can control what you do with your life. Unfortunately, it involves a grandchild, but people like this continuously use their grandchildren against us and legally they can. No matter how nice tyou are, this daughter is going to slap you down with venom. Please think of yourself first this time and see your grandchild if offered, but sadly don't let her know how important he is to you. The more important she thinks he is to you, the more viciously she will use him to control and hurt you and t hen withdraw him. Try to look for the peace and happiness of each day, and focus off of this daughter...even though it includes your grandchild. You are at her mercy whether or not you see him, but begging to THIS daughter will make you look weak and will probably give her satisfaction. For some reason, she wants to tear you apart. [/QUOTE]
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