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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 678977" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>She has options. She can call the police. She can take a taxi to a woman's shelter. She can take a taxi to the police station. She can call CPS and ask for an emergency placement for your grandchild. She can take a taxi to a friend's house, or to your house, if you decide you want to accept her temporarily. She can take a taxi to a neutral spot, like a cafe, where you can talk, the two of you and you can assist her to make a plan.</p><p></p><p>There are so many options that she has. If her goal was to not manipulate you and to put you in a dangerous, crisis situation. That may not even exist. But you would be there under her control and his.</p><p></p><p>I would not go to the house. It is dangerous for you and it will not protect her or your grandson. Think about it. Are you really equipped with either the physical prowess or the crisis management skills to handle an explosive situation with a potentially violent man and a compliant woman who is also seeking to make everything the responsibility of others, namely you?I would never, ever go, if I were you. I would call her and suggest any one of the options I have identified, and others are likely to provide. I would not go.</p><p></p><p>Very calmly tell her it would in your opinion put her and your grandson in greater danger.</p><p>Of course you do. But she is the mother. How will it help him putting yourself at risk, and in an explosive situation over which you have no control, that might explode in such a way that he will see, or worse?</p><p></p><p>In sum. I would not go. I would suggest that you did not.</p><p></p><p>If this man is as she describes him, your daughter needs to make some decisions. If you feel your grandson is at risk, consider calling Child Protective Services, if she does not take constructive and responsible action, which does not put you and her and the baby at further risk.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 678977, member: 18958"] She has options. She can call the police. She can take a taxi to a woman's shelter. She can take a taxi to the police station. She can call CPS and ask for an emergency placement for your grandchild. She can take a taxi to a friend's house, or to your house, if you decide you want to accept her temporarily. She can take a taxi to a neutral spot, like a cafe, where you can talk, the two of you and you can assist her to make a plan. There are so many options that she has. If her goal was to not manipulate you and to put you in a dangerous, crisis situation. That may not even exist. But you would be there under her control and his. I would not go to the house. It is dangerous for you and it will not protect her or your grandson. Think about it. Are you really equipped with either the physical prowess or the crisis management skills to handle an explosive situation with a potentially violent man and a compliant woman who is also seeking to make everything the responsibility of others, namely you?I would never, ever go, if I were you. I would call her and suggest any one of the options I have identified, and others are likely to provide. I would not go. Very calmly tell her it would in your opinion put her and your grandson in greater danger. Of course you do. But she is the mother. How will it help him putting yourself at risk, and in an explosive situation over which you have no control, that might explode in such a way that he will see, or worse? In sum. I would not go. I would suggest that you did not. If this man is as she describes him, your daughter needs to make some decisions. If you feel your grandson is at risk, consider calling Child Protective Services, if she does not take constructive and responsible action, which does not put you and her and the baby at further risk. COPA [/QUOTE]
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