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I need difficult child out of my house!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 511803"><p>First of all - if you are being threatened or he is being violent, you should call the cops because you may be able to use those incidents to get a restraining order against him which will supersede any "requirement" to evict him properly.</p><p></p><p>Do you have the extra funds to rent him an apartment or a extended stay type hotel room? I might do that. Just to get him out and to change his address.</p><p></p><p>I never realized the legal issues in getting an adult, non-rent paying, difficult person out of one's own home! I can't believe there isn't more protection available - especially for parents who are dealing with disruptive, entitled adult children!! Just because you gave the kid a good home for 18+ years shouldn't mean that the kid has a right to live there while being disruptive or committing illegal or violent acts. It's awful. When my own difficult child rented an apartment without our blessing- I was furious. Now I am grateful that his lease (together with his change of address form) has released us from being his "legal residence of record."</p><p></p><p>I almost wonder if talking to someone who deals with domestic abuse would be worthwhile. I know they primarily work with spousal abusers - but an adult child abusing a parent should qualify. They may have legal remedies/advice/help they can give you. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Good luck and I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Please lock the doors and get an alarm at the very least</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 511803"] First of all - if you are being threatened or he is being violent, you should call the cops because you may be able to use those incidents to get a restraining order against him which will supersede any "requirement" to evict him properly. Do you have the extra funds to rent him an apartment or a extended stay type hotel room? I might do that. Just to get him out and to change his address. I never realized the legal issues in getting an adult, non-rent paying, difficult person out of one's own home! I can't believe there isn't more protection available - especially for parents who are dealing with disruptive, entitled adult children!! Just because you gave the kid a good home for 18+ years shouldn't mean that the kid has a right to live there while being disruptive or committing illegal or violent acts. It's awful. When my own difficult child rented an apartment without our blessing- I was furious. Now I am grateful that his lease (together with his change of address form) has released us from being his "legal residence of record." I almost wonder if talking to someone who deals with domestic abuse would be worthwhile. I know they primarily work with spousal abusers - but an adult child abusing a parent should qualify. They may have legal remedies/advice/help they can give you. Good luck and I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Please lock the doors and get an alarm at the very least [/QUOTE]
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