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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 511921" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Mog, </p><p></p><p>Hey there. I think I would go to the police station and ask to speak to the officer who gave my son the ticket and explain the situation to HIM. Foster care, no license, drunk buddy - and could he reduce the tickets? It happens - I know. They did it for Dude. EXACT SAME situation. Not exact same state - but Dude should have been on COPS. (no I'm not kidding) It can't hurt anyway. </p><p></p><p>As far as getting him out of the house? ANd the dishes? Well I'm a tad more dramatic than most. BUT ------I would box up all my dishes. Yup - you heard me. I'd box those suckers up - cups, plates, silverware, and I'd pack them away. THen I'd get paper plates, SOLO plastic cups, and plastic silverware. Cafeteria style -it in the casa for a while. ANd I wouldn't put out the whole LOT of paper plates either - I'd lock them up too. Just enough for the night - when the next meal comes? Put out just enough for that. If he wants another meal? He'd better bring me back the old paper plate. ONE cup - FOR THE WEEK.....Wash your silverware or rather PLASTIC ware - or you can use your freaking fingers. </p><p></p><p>And as far as cleaning up? BOY OH BOY - we were such a household of excess - After I put locks on my door? ALL the towels went in MY room. If the boys wanted a towel? THEY had ONE - pick one....THATs yours. IF I found it laying round ONCE? GONE. DRIP DRY. Mean? Nope - NOt at all - Not my problem. I just stopped making EVERYTHING - MY PROBLEM. I gave them a plate, a towel - A place to live - and I've already told people what I did about clothes laying round the house - and I wasn't kidding. If I had to bend over to pick it up? It went in the trash. They had until that night to get it out of the trash - but usually were SOOOOOO lazy they didn't bother. </p><p></p><p>If he's violent - DOn't threaten police - CALL THEM - and as far as homeless shelters? Leave brochures around - or phone numbers. That should get a rise out of him - You don't have to answer when he says OH IS THIS WHERE YOU WANT ME TO GO......but - Well I thought it was better than this woman I know - whose son smarted off to her and lived in a park under bridges and ate out of dumpsters.........and walk away. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 511921, member: 4964"] Mog, Hey there. I think I would go to the police station and ask to speak to the officer who gave my son the ticket and explain the situation to HIM. Foster care, no license, drunk buddy - and could he reduce the tickets? It happens - I know. They did it for Dude. EXACT SAME situation. Not exact same state - but Dude should have been on COPS. (no I'm not kidding) It can't hurt anyway. As far as getting him out of the house? ANd the dishes? Well I'm a tad more dramatic than most. BUT ------I would box up all my dishes. Yup - you heard me. I'd box those suckers up - cups, plates, silverware, and I'd pack them away. THen I'd get paper plates, SOLO plastic cups, and plastic silverware. Cafeteria style -it in the casa for a while. ANd I wouldn't put out the whole LOT of paper plates either - I'd lock them up too. Just enough for the night - when the next meal comes? Put out just enough for that. If he wants another meal? He'd better bring me back the old paper plate. ONE cup - FOR THE WEEK.....Wash your silverware or rather PLASTIC ware - or you can use your freaking fingers. And as far as cleaning up? BOY OH BOY - we were such a household of excess - After I put locks on my door? ALL the towels went in MY room. If the boys wanted a towel? THEY had ONE - pick one....THATs yours. IF I found it laying round ONCE? GONE. DRIP DRY. Mean? Nope - NOt at all - Not my problem. I just stopped making EVERYTHING - MY PROBLEM. I gave them a plate, a towel - A place to live - and I've already told people what I did about clothes laying round the house - and I wasn't kidding. If I had to bend over to pick it up? It went in the trash. They had until that night to get it out of the trash - but usually were SOOOOOO lazy they didn't bother. If he's violent - DOn't threaten police - CALL THEM - and as far as homeless shelters? Leave brochures around - or phone numbers. That should get a rise out of him - You don't have to answer when he says OH IS THIS WHERE YOU WANT ME TO GO......but - Well I thought it was better than this woman I know - whose son smarted off to her and lived in a park under bridges and ate out of dumpsters.........and walk away. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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