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<blockquote data-quote="HaoZi" data-source="post: 397930"><p>Some of it might depend how well you know and get along with Pat. You could ask her outright if she knows of anything specific that he wanted the boys to have. Yes, you should be present for the will reading, even if you have to do it by conference call or webcam. My dad and stepmom have told me (together) what to expect depending on who dies first, both her son and I were over 18 when they married. I won't say that hasn't changed somewhat now that I have a kid, but I do know there are certain items of my dad's that I will get, like his gun collection and the teak furniture he and my mom bought when he was stationed in Thailand (beautiful pieces that I grew up with and always loved).</p><p></p><p>If you are uncomfortable talking to her and you know who his lawyer was, contact his lawyer. If his estate has to go through probate (at a certain value it's automatic, the amount depends on the state), I expect that if you are named in the will you'll get notified, but I'm not totally certain how it works.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HaoZi, post: 397930"] Some of it might depend how well you know and get along with Pat. You could ask her outright if she knows of anything specific that he wanted the boys to have. Yes, you should be present for the will reading, even if you have to do it by conference call or webcam. My dad and stepmom have told me (together) what to expect depending on who dies first, both her son and I were over 18 when they married. I won't say that hasn't changed somewhat now that I have a kid, but I do know there are certain items of my dad's that I will get, like his gun collection and the teak furniture he and my mom bought when he was stationed in Thailand (beautiful pieces that I grew up with and always loved). If you are uncomfortable talking to her and you know who his lawyer was, contact his lawyer. If his estate has to go through probate (at a certain value it's automatic, the amount depends on the state), I expect that if you are named in the will you'll get notified, but I'm not totally certain how it works. [/QUOTE]
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