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<blockquote data-quote="kaydeec" data-source="post: 304480" data-attributes="member: 8003"><p>Hi all</p><p> </p><p>Since I can remember my little boy has been extremely boistrous, impulsive highly active, strong willed and defiant. He never listens when we try and discipline him and seems to not understand the consequences to his actions...I have tried naughty steps, sending him to his room, taking things away, reward charts, ignoring it??? I am constantly praising his good behaviour. He reached all his milestones quickly and people often commented on this. He is now 5 years old. In a typical day he won't brush his teeth, wash his face, get dressed...etc...he will scream and cry hit bang the doors etc rather than do any of this. It is a constant struggle and fight doing anything...In the evening he won't bath won't get dressed, won't sit at the table..will throw tantrums if he can't watch his TV. whenever friends come round he finds it funny to break his toys, throw them out the window or over the wall. Constantly argues with his friends pulls things away from them always wants to rough and tumble and play fight. I have even lost friend because of his behaviour and i don't want to take him anywhere as I don't trust his behaviour. His teachers decribe him as quiet Shy and gentle and should assert himself more? I feel as though he thinks we are a joke and wants to rebel against us as he finds it funny....We have always thought he may have ADHD but we seem to be the only people who think this, but we are his parents and surely we would know if something were wrong? He has started football training but all his friends seem to be following whats happening but he doesn't seem to understand whats expected of him and will run off doing something else or stand and pull his face lie on the ground etc. He won't try and read or write and doesn't enjoy school work at all. I know he can do it if he tries but he wont try? Saying all of this he is very intelligent and his vocabulary is way above his age, his general knowledge is also really good and he can remember things such as details of things that happend from when he was a year old. My husband and I are constantly arguing now and are so exhausted as we don't know how to deal with his behaviour? Please help us?<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kaydeec, post: 304480, member: 8003"] Hi all Since I can remember my little boy has been extremely boistrous, impulsive highly active, strong willed and defiant. He never listens when we try and discipline him and seems to not understand the consequences to his actions...I have tried naughty steps, sending him to his room, taking things away, reward charts, ignoring it??? I am constantly praising his good behaviour. He reached all his milestones quickly and people often commented on this. He is now 5 years old. In a typical day he won't brush his teeth, wash his face, get dressed...etc...he will scream and cry hit bang the doors etc rather than do any of this. It is a constant struggle and fight doing anything...In the evening he won't bath won't get dressed, won't sit at the table..will throw tantrums if he can't watch his TV. whenever friends come round he finds it funny to break his toys, throw them out the window or over the wall. Constantly argues with his friends pulls things away from them always wants to rough and tumble and play fight. I have even lost friend because of his behaviour and i don't want to take him anywhere as I don't trust his behaviour. His teachers decribe him as quiet Shy and gentle and should assert himself more? I feel as though he thinks we are a joke and wants to rebel against us as he finds it funny....We have always thought he may have ADHD but we seem to be the only people who think this, but we are his parents and surely we would know if something were wrong? He has started football training but all his friends seem to be following whats happening but he doesn't seem to understand whats expected of him and will run off doing something else or stand and pull his face lie on the ground etc. He won't try and read or write and doesn't enjoy school work at all. I know he can do it if he tries but he wont try? Saying all of this he is very intelligent and his vocabulary is way above his age, his general knowledge is also really good and he can remember things such as details of things that happend from when he was a year old. My husband and I are constantly arguing now and are so exhausted as we don't know how to deal with his behaviour? Please help us?:anxious::anxious::anxious: [/QUOTE]
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