I would be outraged, too. Who cares if it's been thirteen years. This stuff is like having your nose rubbed in it all over again. Knowing that worm of a husband was vacationing in Vegas at all, let alone that deceitful biatch and my child.

I am so sorry this really crummy thing is happening to you.
I don't have one bit of advice because I would be deep sixing it, too. But I do know this: Never, ever, let them see you sweat.
This helps me gut my way through impossible things:
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Cedar