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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 434818" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>RM--</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>It sounds very much as though I have offended you. That wasn't my intent...</p><p> </p><p>I'm suggesting that you cannot control who posts what where. You cannot dictate how others share or not share email, FB accounts, "private" messages etc. And because you cannot control it - you should be automatically protecting yourself (as much as possible) at all times. I truly do NOT think you should be wasting your time trying to police Facebook.</p><p> </p><p>Most likely, this difficult child girlfriend is having fun "getting one over" on everyone who falls for her games.</p><p> </p><p>However, if you are seriously being stalked? that is another matter entirely and should be taken seriously. <em>That</em> should be reported to police.</p><p> </p><p>As far as my <em>'level of confidence'</em> goes? I have been stalked - not online, but in real life....and that man made sure to let me KNOW I was being stalked. He would break into my house / car - vandalize my property and leave threatening messages. He's a scary human being. I had to learn not only to protect myself - but not to let <em>his</em> actions run my life.</p><p> </p><p>(FWIW - my real address and telephone number are a simple Google search away. If you wonder why I don't share my kids and things on FB - that's exactly the reason. I never assume that the folks on FB are "secure". I don't know who else reads their page....has their password....types updates and posts pictures from time to time. Based on the things I've seen my own difficult child do....I know that I cannot even trust family.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 434818, member: 6546"] RM-- It sounds very much as though I have offended you. That wasn't my intent... I'm suggesting that you cannot control who posts what where. You cannot dictate how others share or not share email, FB accounts, "private" messages etc. And because you cannot control it - you should be automatically protecting yourself (as much as possible) at all times. I truly do NOT think you should be wasting your time trying to police Facebook. Most likely, this difficult child girlfriend is having fun "getting one over" on everyone who falls for her games. However, if you are seriously being stalked? that is another matter entirely and should be taken seriously. [I]That[/I] should be reported to police. As far as my [I]'level of confidence'[/I] goes? I have been stalked - not online, but in real life....and that man made sure to let me KNOW I was being stalked. He would break into my house / car - vandalize my property and leave threatening messages. He's a scary human being. I had to learn not only to protect myself - but not to let [I]his[/I] actions run my life. (FWIW - my real address and telephone number are a simple Google search away. If you wonder why I don't share my kids and things on FB - that's exactly the reason. I never assume that the folks on FB are "secure". I don't know who else reads their page....has their password....types updates and posts pictures from time to time. Based on the things I've seen my own difficult child do....I know that I cannot even trust family.) [/QUOTE]
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